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Phoenix
Beginner September 2019

Ready to get this done already!

Phoenix, on September 3, 2019 at 8:17 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 12
11 days to go. Just lost my FH Stepdad, don’t even wanna discuss the wedding anymore w my BP, I’m so ready to get back to regular life. I’ve had arguments with people over plus ones, I’ve heard enough complaining from the people who couldn’t get a sitter Bc we cant accommodate 40 kids when the venue can only hold 100 guests. I woke up with pink eye, and my bachelorette party is Saturday. Is anyone else SOOOO OVER the wedding nonsense? I miss regular, wedding planning free life. I’m at the home stretch though. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Latest activity by Phoenix, on September 25, 2019 at 9:21 AM
  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    I'm so sorry for your loss and everything else you are going through. Hopefully this weekend will be a bit of a reset and help you get excited for the most important part of the wedding, you are marrying the person you love. Take care.

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  • Andrea
    Dedicated October 2019
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    First off, I'm sorry for your loss. Secondly, I completely understand how you feel. 38 days and counting, eagerly, because I'm so over wedding planning and dealing with all it entails. I received an RSVP with plus 4 on it. Um, what?! Guests get a plus 1 not however many hell they feel like bringing. My FH is tired of spending money on the wedding and I'm tired of him complaining about it to me. I had an aunt accuse me of purposefully not giving her an invitation. I'm just sick and tired of dealing with the wedding altogether. The good news is you're nearing the finish line.

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  • Thea
    Savvy September 2019
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    So sorry for your loss!

    Keep your chin up, we are nearing the finish line and it will be totally worth it. Smiley smile I have the same timing as you, bachelorette this weekend & wedding the next, so I definitely feel the pressure!

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    I’m so sorry to hear you’ve been having such a difficult time, Phoenix. It will all be worth it in the end.

    Sending you a big e-hug Smiley heart

    Take some time to unwind this weekend with your girls at your bachelorette and enjoy yourself. It sounds like you deserve it.

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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
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    Thanks so much
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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
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    Haha yes everything you’ve said! I never realized how annoying people can get since this is the only
    party where we’ve ever put restrictions. I would imagine people would understand because it’s a wedding and not a 1st birthday party 🤦🏻‍♀️
    I no longer speak to his niece because she assumed we would be inviting her boyfriend, and had a crap fit when we told her NO, because then all our other little teenage nieces and nephews will wanna also bring their BF/GF and this ain’t a teen dance USA party! I ate her up and spit her out and then her mother put something threatening on social media, to which I had
    to let her know that I will show up to her house and punch her in the face! HAHA! fun times 😑
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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
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    Hey thanks for responding! Yes almost there! Hope
    you have a wonderful time and wedding!
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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
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    Thanks so much! I hope all goes well going forward. I appreciate the response ♥️👍🏽
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  • Andrea
    Dedicated October 2019
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    I LOVE your response to the niece's mom! This process has enlightened me to just how rude and entitled family can be. I'm on the verge of blatantly uninviting the cousin who has a plus 4 on her RSVP. I don't even like this cousin. I invited her only because it would be rude to invite her mom and sisters but not her... regretting that decision. Whew girl! We'll get through this come hell or high water Smiley xd

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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
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    I feel like- if people can be rude to me I can be rude right back. Screw that cousin that added 4 people to your invite! Go awwwfff girl! 🤣🤣🤣 seriously i’m so done w everyone that I am just eating them like meat at this point, and people have backed up off me now. 🤣🤣🤣 good luck girl!
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  • Madison
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Preach girl and sorry for your loss. People keep telling me to just enjoy it and I'm like....youre all making it impossible!!
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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
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    Haha! The day came finally it was beautiful. We had some hiccups of course, but we handled it. I’m so happy that it’s over 🤣 and people can finally leave me alone now that it’s all done ♥️🥰
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