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A.Magill.Since.May
Master May 2018

Random Question: Cash gifts and thank you cards

A.Magill.Since.May, on March 23, 2017 at 10:05 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 22

With handwritten thank you cards, I know it's best to keep it personalized and say thank you for the gift of "handtowels, knives, xyz" but it seems weird to me to say "Thank you for $$$dollar amount" How do you phrase, and make individual, thank you cards for cash gifts?

22 Comments

Latest activity by mandaleigh, on March 24, 2017 at 12:09 PM
  • melanie
    Master August 2017
    melanie ·
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    Thank you for your generous gift maybe?

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    I always say "thank you for the very generous gift" and I mention what I will use it towards and how I look forward to seeing them soon etc etc

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  • AllieCat
    Super November 2017
    AllieCat ·
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    I agree with @melanie. If you would like to, you can also include a note about how you plan to use the money (i.e. if you are going to buy a house or something like that).

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  • Van Pear
    VIP January 2017
    Van Pear ·
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    "Generous gift" is what is usually recommended. I've seen suggestions to write what you're putting it toward but not sure how I feel about that (especially if it's going toward your honeymoon lol).

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  • Kathleen Smith
    Kathleen Smith ·
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    IMO, you address them by name in the note, no need to mention dollar amount, and if you like tell them your plan for it.

    "Dear Sue -

    Thank you so much for your generous monetary gift. It is very much appreciated! (and will be put towards our new couch/appliances/road trip).

    Thank you again!

    Our love -

    Elizabeth and husband"

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  • PandaInLove
    Expert August 2017
    PandaInLove ·
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    Yep, you're right. It sure is weird to say that. When someone gives a cash gift, all is needed is to thank them for their gift. Do not specify how much the cash amount was, or indicate how you plan to use the cash, just a "thank you very much for your generous gift" is fine.

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  • brieliz
    VIP January 2017
    brieliz ·
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    I always say thank you for the thoughtful gift and then personalize it in other parts of the thank you. A few of FH's aunts got us a nice gift card so I mentioned we used it to buy a hutch for our china. I would only mention it if it went to a specific purpose though, not like "Thanks for the gift, it's sitting in our savings account for a rainy day"

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  • Mrs.KatieK
    Master September 2016
    Mrs.KatieK ·
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    Generally: "Thank you for your gift, it come on handy with/when we (buy a house/go in our honeymoon)."

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  • Christina
    Devoted August 2018
    Christina ·
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    I suggest just sticking with the "generous gift." I have also seen some couple's say how it's going to be used (down payment for a house, improvements on a first home, redoing their bathroom, etc.) which I think is nice. However, I cannot say it would feel as nice if I found out that was a lie or if they stated they were using it for drinking money, new wardrobe, etc. I would use your best judgment. You can also include thanking them for dancing the night away with you, witnessing your special day, etc. if you want to make the thank you feel less sparse.

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  • SenoraG
    Super July 2017
    SenoraG ·
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    I never put the amount on it. I usually say something like "thank you so much for the gift! I can't wait to go buy x, y, z."

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    "Thank you for your generous and thoughtful gift. We're buying wine."

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
    Miami2NorthernVA ·
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    I would not put the dollar amount. We always give cash and people always say "Thank you for your generous gift". Sometimes that is followed by what they plan to use the cash for.

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  • Emma
    Master May 2017
    Emma ·
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    People know we're saving for an accessible home, so we wrote 'thank you for your generous gift, which we put into our house fund.' I always like knowing what people spend my gift on Smiley smile

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  • That'll Be Mrs Small 2 U
    Super April 2017
    That'll Be Mrs Small 2 U ·
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    All pp ideas sound great! i would recommend the same ideas.

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
    Sara ·
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    I have been using "generous gift"

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  • DoggoMom
    VIP August 2016
    DoggoMom ·
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    We had just bought a house so I thanked people for their gift that helped turn our house into a home.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    "Thank you for your generous gift" plus a little something about how you'll be using it!

    Fill-in-the-blank Thank You Notes


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  • Rachel Langerhans
    Rachel Langerhans ·
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    What everyone else said... "Thank you for your generous (or very generous) gift! We're so glad we got to share our day with you!"

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  • Tricia
    VIP October 2017
    Tricia ·
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    Thank you for the generous gift to help us start our new life together.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    We just said "thank you for the generous gift". I also like @Amanda's suggestion of "thank you for your generosity"

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