Hi everybody! Thanks in advance for your time, support, and advice.
My fiance and I have been together for about 2 1/2 years now and are recently engaged. Since the beginning of our relationship, we have been very intentional; we have always been very clear on what we have envisioned for our future and have known from the start that we planned on getting married and starting a family. We have been living together for a year now and we are seriously considering eloping. Since we already live together, it's almost as if we are already married, minus the legal and financial parts that come with a marriage. While we could save for a wedding in a couple of years, the idea of spending $10-20k on a single day isn't that appealing, nor would it help our financial situation. That money could be used on a wedding could go for something better and more practical in the long run, such as buying a house and starting a family. We have both agreed that when we decided to get married, that we were committing to each other FOR LIFE, and that we weren't agreeing to just one night - marriage is a "marathon" not a "sprint", in our opinions! For those who have eloped, how did your family/friends react? And how did you elope? Thank you again. We really appreciate hearing your feedback and experiences!