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Just Said Yes June 2018

Question about a newly engaged couple

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Meg, on January 25, 2018 at 7:17 PM

Hey! I was just wondering, if a couple gets engaged after I sent out my save the dates and it was addressed to only one of them, do I have/should I to invite both of them to the wedding? I don’t mind, I was just wondering what ettiequte dictates? Thank you!!

Hey!
I was just wondering, if a couple gets engaged after I sent out my save the dates and it was addressed to only one of them, do I have/should I to invite both of them to the wedding? I don’t mind, I was just wondering what ettiequte dictates?
Thank you!!

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Master August 2018
Kristina · on January 26, 2018 at 1:05 PM
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I'm having an adult reception and I gave everyone a +1 to be courteous.
Whether or not they choose to bring someone is up to them, the guest list is within our budget/venue limit.
I don't think it's really up to me to decide the relationship of their plus one.
But if I know the name of a SO I'm putting that name on the invitation because like what has been said, a couple is a social unit with wedding etiquette and I feel it would be rude not to invite them whether they are engaged or not.
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Expert June 2018
6-1-18 · on January 26, 2018 at 1:21 PM
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Meanwhile in the Facebook wedding group I'm in, someone is putting "legal spouses only" on their invitations 🙃
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Devoted September 2018
Tara · on January 26, 2018 at 8:24 PM
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Oh god, that's awful! My fiance and I dated for 8 years, and lived together for 3, before getting engaged. I would be so mad if someone invited just one of us!
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