PSA: your bridesmaids are not your glitter slave whores

Something along the line of, "When I agreed to be in your wedding, I didn't realize there would be an entry fee at meetings, I would have no input on the dress or how much it cost and that you would require airbrushed makeup. I now realize I can't afford to be in your wedding." Then wish her the best and get out of there.

Yes they are.

JK please don't hate me. My girls are getting frustrated that I'm not giving them enough direction.

Bruh. She needs to gtfo of that one. Idk how though

I'd be bailing.

I just bs with bridesmaid and maid of honor. I have yet to have them actually help with stuff. We went to bridal expo for fin and my MOH wouldn't let me carry my own tote. I told her when I asked her to be in the wedding that with 3 kids and a 4th on the way that I understand if she can't do it. But I also told her her only responsibility is keeping me calm.

I would not want to be a part of that! I can't believe people these days, seriously!

Me either. I feel so bad. I told her to tell the bride to download WW

I definitely would give her a couple choice words then maybe bow out gracefully!

Lord! Thats ridiculous!!! Edited: cant type properly it seems

@jaci it's very true. I watched bridesmaids the other night and all I could think was holy shit at the shower thrown by Katherine

MrsMiller, my MOH is getting frustrated too lol. She keeps asking what I need her to do. I keep saying "Show up and be your pretty self". She's not having it lol.

Bye bitch always seems to work for me....

What the fart!? Lol I would just tell the bride it's more than I can handle.

Go see the Ugh!! Thread, you'll get a good laugh! Contracts? Was the bride's name Ashley by any chance?

(Not you OP)

Cause there was a thread earlier today about it that she may have been posting in

Barf after the manadatory $36 fee

ETA: @gymrat I love seeing your posts xD

WTF. How can you even have a meeting in a Dave and Buster's and hear anyone talk to plan anything? Assuming it was meeting to plan a shower or something? You go to Dave and Busters for a bachelorette if that's your thing, but that's all.

I missed you @GymRat!

@ChristinaS! :-)

ETA: and @Juli!

Haha! My MOH and I did a little shopping before my bachelorette weekend started, and she kept trying to do everything, pay for everything, etc. Finally, when she was trying to carry my shopping bags for me, I stopped her and actually said, "Honey, you are not my glitter-covered slave!" She got a pretty big kick out of that and proceeded to tell me that being my glitter-covered anything sounded pretty fun to her LMAO

Sassy - my MOH is a web designer and wanted to make our wedding website, had volunteered to make all our signs volunteered to do invites... The list goes on. I love her and that's why I want her right there with me. I am going to have her do a few things but really I just need her to keep my from going crazy. She doesn't need to consider my wedding a part time job lol!!