Pregnant Bridesmaids

Hi Ryan, Tell your FW politely that she's over reacting(whenever my hubby talks to me he calms me down, he talks reason into me so try and shine some light on things that she may not see yet) her bridesmaids do NOT need to put their lives on hold because they're coming out in a wedding so their getting pregnant is their own life choice and I'm sure they'd expect their friend to be happy for them and not worried about them "showing" in the photos; actually worrying about them showing is probably one of the most insensitive things. My bachelorette was in Vegas and yes 99% of the things to do there are centered around drinking. You have to pay to get into certain clubs so if I were prego I would not want to be paying entrance fees to a club that I may not necessarily enjoy. However there are some girls who will do the whole Vegas experience belly and all alcohol free without a problem. I understand how stressful wedding planning can be trust me I did it all already but honestly, as a bride you can't control your bridesmaids you can only ask for them to stand by your side on your big day (1 day), doing otherwise may ruin a good friendship. Tell your FW that this is not something that she needs to worry her pretty little head about, my husband told me this a few times and one day I was like you're right! and things went better! Dress wise, there are tons of options and pregnant bm have been around for a long time so I don't see that going away soon. Good Luck!

View Quoted Comment That’s big of you to accept the criticism. Not many people will read the comment where you apologized so you are likely to keep getting bombarded, bucked up lol. Thank you for recognizing where your thinking went awry. Hopefully you won’t get too many more comments!