Pregnancy question!! Help !!

Dont rush into anything but make a flexible plan. Talk to your doctors now. You and FH should have your fertility health checked out. Many couples can wait several years, some can't. Or there are other factors that could make getting pregnant more difficult. It's important to do if you want to wait awhile.

Since you and your FH recently changed your minds about having children, I think you should wait. A few months after you get married, you may change your mind again. I say wait and give yourselves time to think about what you want. Children change a relationship a lot

My aunt was in her late 30's when she had her 3 kids (37 and 39 I think) She never regretted waiting. As far as I know she never had any complications but I know other women who have. Not sure if age was a factor or not. Personally I wanted to have kids at a younger age and I did. Nothing wrong either way, Everyone has different reasons for when they want to get pregnant in their lives. I think that maybe the 2 of you should sit down and have a very serious conversation about it though. Why he doesn't want to wait, why you do, etc. Maybe even see a therapist. They usually have good incite and could maybe help you both see things from a different perspective

You shouldn't rush into having a baby until you feel you're ready. It's a pretty expensive endeavor and physically exhausting, so I wouldn't want to be pregnant and planning a wedding simultaneously. That said, there are things you can start doing now like making a savings account for the first years' worth of expenses, making sure you have space in your apartment or house for a baby, etc. I would def make an appointment with an OBGYN to start preparing: making sure you're up to date with your exams, getting bloodwork done if you need to, taking vitamins and tracking ovulation. The hard part is even if you're healthy, the risk of miscarriage and complications go up as you get older. Where you are now, you guys should be fine!

I had my first at 27 and second at 29. I seriously dont know how ppl in their late 30s without a support system have energy to have kids. Then again everyone's situation is different. Both my spouse and I have successful careers...we also wanted kids close in age hence the 16 months in between. ... Having children changes things. Relationship Dynamic. Priorities. I do have to say husband and I were the perfect couple before kids - as in I could never thought it was possible - sex 7 days a week, never disagreeing, on board w everything and anything, we killed all our goals individual and joint... It was a dream. After kids we do now get into it just cuz we see parenting differently. I wouldn't change it and I don't think neither would he but I know we both think sometimes how awesome it used to be without all this... With all that said I agree w everyone who said to not make changes to plans u have already made. And also this - any time someone making a decision about having kids or not asks me I say this - have kids don't have kids ur life will be amazing in it's own way. It is truly the greatest thing to hold ur baby. It is crazy to say but if for whatever reason my husband wasn't there anymore I would die inside yes but my life would so continue cuz of the tiny humans that call me mommy. On the other hand if u don't have kids...well the world is ur oyster... The lifestyle u get to have without kids is just beyond amazing. The kind of freedom (financial, space, emotional, et ) no parent can ever have
Also parenting affects ppl differently. U may think u know the person but once all the stress of parenting comes....it's a lot...anyways good luck!