My FH and I always said we didnt want kids at all.. Last year I started feeling that maybe I do (maybe because a lot of my friends have been having kids). My FH never really expressed wanting any seriously.. Well for the past 2 months he’s been jokingly saying that We should get pregnant, or that “accidents” happen, hoping I don’t get my period and so on. Obviously he knows I have to consent and it’s not just going to happen lol. So 2 days ago he just told me that he’s serious and that he feels that we’re ready for a baby, that his body is telling him and so is mine (whatever that means lol). I told him we are not ready, I want to be married before having a kid, I’m waiting on a promotion at work so waiting on that as well, but being married is the biggest one.. Now, he’s all like we should move the date (date is set for 08.08.20) We already booked our stay at the resort in order to lock our date, changing it is doable we’d just have to pay a fee. Our parents have been asking for a grandkid for the past 6yrs lol, specially my mom since I’m the oldest... Some of my friends tell me I shouldn’t wait until I’m older due to complications and I don’t want to be too old raising a kid (I’m 30 and he’s 31). I’m thinking 2021 should be good to get pregnant (I’ll be 31/32).
What do you guys think?? For those that started parenting late, what’s your experience?? Was it hard getting pregnant? Would you recommend???
Thoughts/opinions..
thank you!!
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