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Savvy August 2021

Pregnancy before wedding.

Kr, on August 12, 2021 at 3:22 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 64

Hey there ! TMI WARNING. In a bit of a dilemma. FH and I were doing our best to practice abstinence before our wedding on August 28, 2021 (SIXTEEN DAYS!) however, we ended up breaking that last Saturday the 6th. I was a few days away from ovulation, but FH did not use protection or pull out methods....
Hey there !
TMI WARNING.

In a bit of a dilemma. FH and I were doing our best to practice abstinence before our wedding on August 28, 2021 (SIXTEEN DAYS!) however, we ended up breaking that last Saturday the 6th. I was a few days away from ovulation, but FH did not use protection or pull out methods. Our wedding is coming up quick and I’m due for my period the Tuesday before our wedding… there is a possibility I could end up pregnant and miss my period. I’m a wreck. I’m not so much a wreck because we could be pregnant but because I will need to hide it from anyone and everyone so they aren’t suspicious since we would not be ready to make that announcement.
I have told my bridesmaid and BFF of like forever about the situation. Any other advice? Tips for if I am expecting? My dress was altered and I don’t think I would be too bloated… but any help for that if so? Thanks.
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  • Allison
    Devoted May 2022
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    I'm getting antsy waiting to find out if I am (I'm probably not, I just want concrete evidence and won't get it for another week and a half or so)!

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  • A
    Beginner November 2021
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    Did you end up getting your period?! Looking forward to hearing your results!
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
    Kr ·
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    Nope not yet! I’m scared to test. Might wait till after the wedding….
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  • A
    Beginner November 2021
    Anna ·
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    I totally understand that! Enjoy your wedding day and focus on your day! Test after if you still haven’t gotten your period and then update us? Lol I’m sorry I feel like I’m so invested now in your situation!
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
    Kr ·
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    LOL! That’s okay! No period yet… I’ll keep you posted. Enjoy your wedding day, too!
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  • Allison
    Devoted May 2022
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    Hope you had an amazing wedding day!
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
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    Thank you so much! I did!!!
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
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    Hey Anna! We are twins… I am pregnant! Hubby and I found out today. Extremely nervous…. Hope you had a wonderful wedding day!
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  • Allison
    Devoted May 2022
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    I’m supposed to get my period on Saturday, so I’ll keep you guys posted! Congratulations! 🥰
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
    Kr ·
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    Yay!!!! Let us know!!! This is insane. We could literally all be due around the same time.
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  • Allison
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    I know, so crazy! I will def keep you posted! Smiley smile
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  • A
    Beginner November 2021
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    Omg yay!!!!! Congratulations!! And I hope your wedding was everything you dreamed it would be. We had so much fun yesterday at ours. I couldn’t stop smiling/happy tears/perfection. Now we both have a growing family to look forward to! Two apps I joined that I recommend - The Bump and What to Expect. A friend of mine used both for her pregnancy. Both are great!!
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  • A
    Beginner November 2021
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    Can’t wait to hear your results too!!
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  • Allison
    Devoted May 2022
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    I'll keep you posted! My app says I could get my period anywhere from today to September 10th (not sure why the window is so big lol), but that I will most likely get it on Saturday. I feel like the chances are slim now that I'm thinking about it more, but we shall see! The fact that I would be almost 9 months pregnant on my wedding day would mean I would have to rearrange everything, so that's definitely not ideal, but my FH and I want kids, so I would also be very happy if I was pregnant!

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  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
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    Congratulations! On both your wedding and expecting your little one 🙂
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
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    Thank you so much!
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
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    Thank you very much!!!
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  • Allison
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    I got my period. We don’t have to worry about changing our wedding date now! We’re going to start trying right after we get married😊
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  • A
    Beginner November 2021
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    Aw well that’s good you can keep everything as planned!
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  • K
    Savvy August 2021
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    Yay!!! I am glad you get to keep everything as planned Smiley smile
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