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Mrs. Bubba
VIP September 2019

Posting stuff online

Mrs. Bubba, on October 10, 2019 at 5:03 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 28

Why do people feel the need to post everything online for others to see? There are pictures from my Wedding online and the venue was tagged. On Tuesday, I asked the poster to remove the tag so that random people won’t have access to an event that I PAID for. I just asked again. The pictures weren’t...
Why do people feel the need to post everything online for others to see?

There are pictures from my Wedding online and the venue was tagged. On Tuesday, I asked the poster to remove the tag so that random people won’t have access to an event that I PAID for. I just asked again.

The pictures weren’t even sent to me via e-mail for my approval before being posted.

Why do ADULTS not understand that they do NOT have the right to share someone else’s event with the 🌎❓‼️

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  • Renee
    Super October 2020
    Renee ·
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    Obviously not or I wouldn't have asked. Using little pictures instead of words made it so I was unsure, hence why I asked.

    Since that's the case, that's a really dramatic example. Being photographed naked and posting it online is illegal and people can get sued for that. Tagging a venue in someone's pictures is completely different. My understanding is that you feel like your privacy was violated so hopefully they untag the pictures for you. However I feel it's not that big of a deal. But everyone is different.

    I would try to get ahold of them again and hope for the best. Sorry you feel like your privacy was violated and I hope it all works out for you. Have a great day

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    Thank you Renee.

    Have a great day as well.
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  • N
    Master January 2015
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    I don't see how a photo of someone in the shower is related to a photo someone took at your wedding. Was it inappropriate? I understand not being into social media, but the people posting these photos probably had a great time at your wedding and want to share their happiness for you. I'm not really understanding why the fact that you paid for the event matters, you invited people to participate in that event with you. Maybe it's just me, but I can't imagine being angry over someone posting pictures from my wedding that I invited them to be a part of.

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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    Hi Amber:

    I’m not angry. I just want the tag removed or edited so that only her friends can see. Having a good time at an event still doesn’t give someone the right to post pictures of another individual or their event. Since I paid for the use of their venue, I also do NOT want to provide free advertising for them.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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    The fact that I paid matters because I should be able to say how and where my event is posted/viewed. This is the same as people posting pictures of someone else’s kid(s). You have to ask first and then have sense enough to limit who sees them.

    Everyone in the 🌎 should NOT be privy to all of the intimate details of your life.

    Why is everyone so eager and ready to post and share someone else’s business?
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    Does your photographer and venue not post photos of the event online? That's pretty standard in most contracts that I looked at. If she's sharing her personal photos, I think you should definitely ask her to remove the tags, or remove the ones where you're in them if it bothers you. If she's sharing photographer photos without your or the photogs permission, that's not ok.

    But you seem overly concerned with privacy so I would definitely check your contracts because your venue and photographer may be able to use photos of your event (that you paid for!).

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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    The venue has absolutely nothing to do with the pictures.

    Per previous replies, my Cousin (MoH) tagged the venue when she posted the pictures. I don’t want the picture to be on their FB page.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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    Thank you ladies. The posts have been edited.
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