Postcard type wedding invitations.

You don’t have to do a registry, but gifts shouldn’t be mentioned anywhere on your invitations. I’ve never seen postcard invites, but I’ve seen plenty of one card invitations with a link to RSVP.

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Thanks so much. I created my own postcard invitations. I do not have anything about gifts, just checking.

Thanks again. I really appreciate your help.

You don't have to mention gifts but you can say registry. We have a honeymoon registry website and that's all. If folks feel obliged to give a gift, it will go towards our honeymoon.

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Are you planning on having a wedding website? If so, guests could RSVP on there! You could also include registry information, along with useful details such as accommodation, etc. A wedding website with additional information may be a great way to save space on your postcard invitations

A post card invitation will potentially convey to guests that the wedding is quite casual. If that's what you're going for, it's a good option. If the wedding is actually fairly formal, guests might get the wrong idea from the invitations. I agree with others that NOTHING regarding gifts or a registry should ever be on the wedding invitation. I think directing guests to a wedding website to RSVP, and where the registries can also be listed/linked, might be a great option for you. Daughter had a fairly formal wedding, and found the RSVP application on her Knot website to be great!

Don't ask for money in any form. You can, however, have a registry identified on your website.

I've never seen a post card invite but I have seen post card save the dates. We're doing that. I definitely wouldn't ask for money anywhere on the invite but if you have a wedding website, you can add your registry/honeymoon fund on there and just put your website link on your invite.

First, a donation to your honeymoon IS a gift

Second, don't mention gifts or registries on invitations ever - very rude

Third, if you don't want a traditional registry, just don't have one - people will gift you money