Ok I have a BIG question for everyone. I am NOT the bride but the MOH. My bride has turned into a bridezilla and I am okay with that. I have been married (and divorced) so I understand the stressors of a wedding. I have helped her plan every step including dress shopping since she has a super unsupportive family that up and moved out of state on her. Now my bride's future in laws graciously gave the future couple a very, very, very large sum of money to invest into the wedding so everything is covered including their honeymoon and then a bit left over for their savings. (Sorry for the backstory)
After a very long conversation with my bff last night about how it probably wasn't the best idea to ask another one of her bridesmaids kids not to attend the wedding considering other children will be there and that maybe his dad could just sit with him , she announced the father wasn't invited because they weren't married. I stewed on it for a bit and decided to ask her today if my boyfriend was invited as we are in a serious relationship close to 2 years, live together, saving up for rings/wedding, she lived in the house with me for free for 7 months while she finished college and then with my aunt for a few months after, my mom and aunt are attending the wedding, and both my daughters are also in the wedding. She responded with "No plus ones."
How would you react? I haven't told him because their relationship will be done. Do I pull out of the wedding? Do I go? Someone is going to get hurt. Please help!!!!!