I have 30 first cousins. So, for my wedding, I decided that only engaged/married cousins would get a plus one. It just was the line we had to draw to make the numbers work.
Well, my aunt, who can be kind of flighty, was given a plus one because I thought she was in a relationship still. She’s is not but she used her plus one to invite one my cousins girlfriends.
Ultimately, I gave her a plus one and not addressed to the specific person, because my mom wasn’t sure if she was still with this guy or it was a new guy but she lives a 9 hour drive away from the wedding so either way I wanted her to have the ability to not make that drive alone if she wanted.
My cousins girlfriend is not going to be driving with her because she and my cousin live in state.
I think I’m pretty stuck and can’t tell my aunt that’s not okay although I think it was a really awful sneaky thing to do and had this cousin simply asked me I would have told him that as soon as I get all my rsvps back if I had enough no’s he could bring her.
But, like I’m so sad. I’m not one to make myself the center of attention but my cousin hasn’t even reached out and said “congrats so excited to celebrate” and I haven’t even gotten his RSVP! Yet, his girlfriend I’ve never met is coming?
I feel like I’m going crazy. And now my other cousins who don’t have plus ones who have already asked and I said the statement above are gonna be upset.
Im just so heartbroken that no one cares about celebrating a special day for me. They all just want to have a free party. Im truly about to cancel and go to city hall to get married. Deposits be damned.
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