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iris, on March 9, 2020 at 9:48 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 41

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Okay guys please nobody be rude lol. I wasn’t aware that including registry info was a bad thing or rude/tacky. After reading all the forums on this it’s really bugging me!! I did put in a registry slip that bed bath and beyond gave us when we registered and my invitations are addressed and stamped ready to be mailed. But I’m really contemplating buying new envelopes and stamps and just opening the invitations up to take out the registry slip. What would you do?

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Latest activity by Katharine, on March 24, 2020 at 3:05 PM

Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on March 9, 2020 at 9:55 PM
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That’s exactly what I would do.
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iris · on March 9, 2020 at 9:56 PM
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Thank you! Luckily I haven’t mailed them out yet and I still have time I rather be safe than seem gift grabby or greedy lol
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Emma · on March 9, 2020 at 9:59 PM
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Maybe try a blow dryer to unseal them?
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Emily · on March 9, 2020 at 10:00 PM
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What how do they know about our registry if we don’t tell them? I didn’t know you couldn’t tell them where you are registered I’m confused
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iris · on March 9, 2020 at 10:02 PM
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I guess by word of mouth? Lol and everyone is saying registry info is for bridal showers not wedding invites. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Emily · on March 9, 2020 at 10:05 PM
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That is a ridiculous rule. As a guest I would be annoyed if they didn’t state their registry with the invite 🤦🏻‍♀️I’m doing it so I guess call me tacky lmao.
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Willow · on March 9, 2020 at 10:05 PM
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How much more time and money would it cost to get new stamps and envelopes? I'd just leave it or try the steaming method. Maybe steam a corner open and tease the slip out

The whole being coy about your registry is a bit of a farce IMO. The registry info is on a separate slip, not on the face of the invite, so it could be worse
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Melle · on March 9, 2020 at 10:22 PM
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Honestly I think it’s ok to leave it aha it sounds like it’s a lot of time and effort to undo this
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Jordan · on March 9, 2020 at 10:30 PM
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I think you should definitely KEEP them in there. People want to buy you guys gifts and are going to be asking non stop where you are registered at. We weren't going to insert them in ours but everyone i spoke to said we should definitely have them in there and have it somewhere easily accessible for people to see.
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Jordan · on March 9, 2020 at 10:31 PM
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I completely agree! People would rather know what you would like than guess and waste time and money on something you don't want. Also a lot easier on the guest, they dont have to go hunting for your registry information.
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Tiffany · on March 9, 2020 at 10:37 PM
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Same. I had a details card in my invitation envelopes, one side was online RSVP info and the other side was where we are registered
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Leslie · on March 9, 2020 at 10:38 PM
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I would redo. You could do that for shower. The registry is more word of mouth.
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iris · on March 9, 2020 at 10:40 PM
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This is an extra invitation I gues on the bright side if I don’t redo them it’s not the first thing you see, the slip is behind the rsvp card
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Emily · on March 9, 2020 at 10:49 PM
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Right 😂I know as a guest the first thing I’ve ALWAYS looked for was the registry so I can order their gift..never saw it as rude.
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Emily · on March 9, 2020 at 10:50 PM
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Love that! I’m definitely doing something similar. It’s helpful to guests to not have to ask you
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Emily · on March 9, 2020 at 10:51 PM
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Very beautiful invite 😍
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iris · on March 9, 2020 at 10:55 PM
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Thank you!! I do love them! I got them off zazzle but my aunt made the navy blue cut out with her cricut machine 🤩
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Samantha · on March 10, 2020 at 1:46 AM
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Girl do what YOU want! I personally would feel it was silly to open an invitation and not see registry info. I don’t want to be left guessing what to gift I’d rather some direction. Maybe those who think it’s rude have a snooty crowd lol
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Samantha · on March 10, 2020 at 1:46 AM
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My crowd are always eager to get registry info from people as soon as they get engaged haha!
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Monica · on March 10, 2020 at 2:59 AM
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I say leave it. If it's already all the way on the back it will be fine. I would not be offended at all to have that in the invitation.
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