Planning with a stubborn fiance

@fallenwagon - no offense, but it might be easier to understand you better if you checked your wording, grammar, spelling, etc.

Que sad to say i agree . Op i try helping in my own way . My texting is very sloppy . Sorry., back to op . Be strong .

@Fallenwagon & @Moriah - hope everything works out for you both!

Hisbeauty , i get what your saying . What i mean about my daughter is that i want her to learn to never delay or put her feelings last . I think i could slowly feel myself sliding back into a submissive role . I know my fh is not my ex . But now i sort of base every thing that dont work out on my ex and not fair to my fh . My fh is very loving and discusses even invitations with me lol but i think he been single so very very long that time is nothing to him , that 2019 was a cool idea . When i mention why didnt we then just go to jop in oct he said because i never been married but u have n we need budget for the big bash . I just honestly could of avoided any misundestanding had i just waited to move in with him til after marriage but i am here now and love him and love my job. I will practice on my texting . God bless .