Planning progress- what am i forgetting/can do now?

Wow, it sounds like you have a really good handle on things so far. The nice thing about a longer engagement is that you have plenty of time to get things done. I know you said you feel like you've hit a plateau, but that's how it is with wedding planning. It's a flurry of activity, and then nothing for months.

Do you plan to create a wedding website for your guests? You can work on that now. There are tools here on Wedding Wire to do that. Also, I've heard of some other sites that do good wedding websites, like Zola and The Knot.

You didn't mention anything about a honeymoon. Will you and FH be taking one immediately after the wedding? Some couples wait a bit, for lots of reasons. But you could start your research on that at least.

Another thing I thought of was engagement photos? Will you be doing those? This would be a good time to get that scheduled, if you are. Our photography package came with a free engagement photo session, so we scheduled that right after we booked our photographer.

If someone wants to throw you a bridal shower, those usually take place 1-3 months before the wedding. But that's a gift giving event, so you should not throw that for yourself. Maybe your mom would like to do that.

Finally, the only other thing I've thought of (because I'm working on it myself) is the Rehearsal Dinner. If you're not aware, most couples have a wedding rehearsal, usually the day before the wedding, to practice the walk down the aisle, where everyone needs to stand, etc. Afterwards, you host a dinner to thank your bridal party for participating. It could be an at-home BBQ, or it can be a nicer meal at a restaurant. The details are up to you, based on what you'd like and what you can afford.

Otherwise, it sounds like you're right on track, and doing great!! Happy planning!!