I want to know what everyones opinion is on this. I'm stressed out of my mind. And my mom just told me that i (the bride) have to pick up my wedding cake and take it to the venue. Has the bride ever picked up her own cake the morning where she should just be focused on marrying her husband to be? I told my mom to designate someone to pick it up but she wont is this something i should make someone do?... i ordered my cake through sams club because my orginal baker just all of a sudden backed out.