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Breanna
VIP June 2015

Photographer bailed...

Breanna, on May 28, 2015 at 10:12 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 77

Eight fucking days out and we get a call from the photographer saying she forgot her sons high school graduation is the day of our wedding and she can't make it. Are you kidding me? 1. How do you forget about your sons graduation? 2. My wedding is in eight fucking days and you're gonna screw me over...

Eight fucking days out and we get a call from the photographer saying she forgot her sons high school graduation is the day of our wedding and she can't make it. Are you kidding me? 1. How do you forget about your sons graduation? 2. My wedding is in eight fucking days and you're gonna screw me over like this? I have to look over the contract and see if she can even do that. I'm fucking pissed. I don't know what to do. My calm IDGAF week was just ruined. Thanks, bitch.

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  • JMthirteen
    Devoted September 2015
    JMthirteen ·
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    Aaaah I'm so glad you found a replacement!

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  • Kris E
    VIP May 2015
    Kris E ·
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    Glad it worked out. I can't even imagine.

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  • S
    VIP August 2015
    Sparkles ·
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    Make sure you review her to warn other brides! Soo not cool. And fingers crossed it works out with one of them!!

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  • M
    Devoted October 2015
    Mya ·
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    Calm down. Two Options:

    1) Tell her that you have a contract and you expect her to find a suitable replacement in order to execute that contract or you expect a full refund of your money. MOST photographers have a pipeline to others in the industry and can help you out in a situation like this--so call her back, remain calm, apologize for hanging up on her, and try to deal with her on finding someone who can fill in.

    2) Check Wedding Wire vendors and craigslist to see if you can find anyone who is not booked on that date. Be sure to do your "due diligence" on checking their work. Some of the less expensive ones can be incredibly talented.

    Getting stressed won't help. Calm down, breathe--and make some calls.

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  • Nikki
    VIP November 2015
    Nikki ·
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    Glad it worked out!

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  • Marina
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    Marina ·
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    Glad it worked out! Now, you'll leave her a scathing review, right?

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
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    Our contract says that in case of sickness, she will provide a an equally experienced photographer. This seems like a similar issue. Go on thumbtack.com and put out a request for a quote. Explain the situation and you may find someone you love more. And take her to small claims court. Good luck!

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  • Celia Milton
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    I know you've found someone and that's fantastic; this is a great lesson for everyone out there.

    1. get a contract from EVERYONE; friendor or pro, free or paid.

    2. pay a retainer; if there is nothing to lose, there is no compelling reason for a sorta pro to fulfill their obligation.

    3. Thumbtack requires vendors to pay to contact you. Only the desperate vendors use it. Craigslist doesn't require a fee, but also used by the desperate.

    4. Check references and past clients. Don't be blinded by a great price or a recommendation from someone who knows the vendor.

    5. Check reviews here, yelp, where ever possible

    6. Ask your other vendors if they know them/refer them/recommend them. While we will probably never say something outride derisive, crickets say a lot....

    I'm glad it's resolved; have a wonderful wedding!

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  • Jay Farrell
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    Gaga, Thumbtack would likely generate more people like she had originally. This thread proves that a camera owner with a few dubious decent shots does not make a photographer.

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  • NotAllWhoWanderAreLost
    Master August 2015
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    Happy that things worked out for you!

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  • FutureMrs.N
    Devoted December 2015
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    Glad you were able to find someone so quickly! I agree with everyone else that a true professional would never go back on their contract, and would at least give you a few suggestions for a replacement.

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
    FormerUser ·
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    @jay I definitely see that, but we found ours on Thumbtack and after researching her fully, are very happy with the find. I posted a few weeks ago about experiences with thumbtack before hiring (I was wary) and everyone had overwhelmingly positive things to say about their vendors. It's definitely not for everyone, and you should def fully research anyone you find, but in an emergency like this, it's a viable option.

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  • Doublej079
    VIP August 2015
    Doublej079 ·
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    I am so glad you found someone!

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
    OG Ruth ·
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    I'm glad you found another photographer!

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  • Lara~N~Love
    VIP September 2016
    Lara~N~Love ·
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    That's not cool at all. I'm glad you were able to find a replacement.

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  • JCB
    Master September 2015
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    Crisis averted! Happy to hear you found someone new (and probably better!)

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  • Kristy
    Just Said Yes March 2017
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    Glad you found a solution and I hope it goes smoothly for you.

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