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Breanna
VIP June 2015

Photographer bailed...

Breanna, on May 28, 2015 at 10:12 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 77

Eight fucking days out and we get a call from the photographer saying she forgot her sons high school graduation is the day of our wedding and she can't make it. Are you kidding me? 1. How do you forget about your sons graduation? 2. My wedding is in eight fucking days and you're gonna screw me over...

Eight fucking days out and we get a call from the photographer saying she forgot her sons high school graduation is the day of our wedding and she can't make it. Are you kidding me? 1. How do you forget about your sons graduation? 2. My wedding is in eight fucking days and you're gonna screw me over like this? I have to look over the contract and see if she can even do that. I'm fucking pissed. I don't know what to do. My calm IDGAF week was just ruined. Thanks, bitch.

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
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    That just blows! I would get my money back plus some. She needs to find you a replacement, IF she was sick in a hospital or somebody died that is one thing, but forgetting a graduation shows she is just disorganized. Call Judge Judy, she would love it. Leave her negative reviews anywhere and everywhere.

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  • Sarah
    Master October 2014
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    Jim Yeager Photography... http://www.somethingforever.com. He did our wedding for a fraction of the price listed on his website.

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  • L
    Just Said Yes May 2016
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    Yes, recently my boyfriend order a fly cam, which can take picture from sky, also buy a gopro. It is now popular for wedding photography.

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  • Mrs. White
    Devoted June 2015
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    She better get you a replacement!! That is absolutely unacceptable!!!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Yeah, Lucky, a go pro is a perfect replacement for an actual photography human...

    geez.

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  • Heather A
    Master September 2014
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    Lucky, I have a gopro, I use my gopro on a daily basis and it is my favorite electronic device....however it will never replace an actual photographer or take pictures at the level a professional camera would. Most people who have go pro cameras at weddings have them in addition to a pro.

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  • Doublej079
    VIP August 2015
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    Oh my god...I am so sorry this is happening to you. I am trying to think of someone in our area who would be available on short notice - maybe put something up on Facebook if you have one??? You'd be surprised at who come through for you. This sucks though.

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  • allysia
    Master April 2016
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    I am absolutely livid for you! Please be sure to leave an appropriate review of her services or lack thereof when this is all said and done.

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  • Victoria
    VIP June 2016
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    I'd be pissed too! She should definitely find you a replacement. And don't do George Street. My planner said they were blah at best. Thats why they harass brides after wedding expos.

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  • Breanna
    VIP June 2015
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    I've got the whole family looking right now. A few good leads, my sister's wedding photographer referred me to one of her friends. We're talking right now. Luckily the photographer didn't want to be paid until afterwards (wanted to make sure we liked the pictures first.. Hah) so I'm basically like forget her, I'll just find someone.

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  • FutureMrsPurdy
    Expert July 2015
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    That is terrible! I hope you have a resolution soon!

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  • Promike
    Master September 2015
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    Call Sky Blue Iris Photography and talk to Justin. Tell him Promise sent you. 503-515-6263

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  • Jon Anthony
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    Make sure you save all messages between you and the photographer for future proof.

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  • Della
    VIP July 2015
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    This is my portland photographer/ Jessi Koski +1 (925) 784-0389.

    I know a few more if that doesn't work out. Also join the portland wedding community Facebook group. There are a ton of photographers in it.

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  • onawho
    VIP August 2015
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    I am using powers studio in Portland, try them. Erin the customer relations front person is wonderful.

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  • Christine
    Master October 2015
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    I would be LIVID if I were you...thank god you didn't pay anything yet! And these ladies are awesome for giving you so many leads!

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
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    That sucks! I'm so pissed off for you right now! Good luck with finding someone else. Please keep us updated.

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  • OGSue
    Master August 2016
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    At this point it's her responsibility to provide an alternate solution, and if you didn't like that one then it would be on you.

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  • Briggitte Dix
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    A vendor not wanting to take any kind of a retainer for their services is a huge red flag to me. All of the professionals that I work with have a payment schedule and just to reserve your date would need a certain amount down. Unfortunately, it looks like you got duped by a hobbyist, who doesn't take what they do on the side very seriously.

    I'm glad you are on your way to finding someone else, I hope everything works out!

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  • Alicia
    VIP October 2018
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    I'd be so pissed. I hope you can find a replacement.

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