How much of your wedding budget is being used up for photography/video? I feel like we were blessed to find a venue that for the price of per person includes our cake and cake cutting, set up and clean up, open bar, and a few other things that would otherwise be considered extra on the budget. We are already saving on decor by doing lots of DIY pieces, and my dress is not outrageously costly. I had originally fallen in love with one very affordable photographer, and though I am not out of love with them...I have come across someone that swept me of my feet with their work. The problem is my fiance thinks its too much money because its nearly double what the first one is, with only about 3 bonuses (ei. engagement session, 2 more hours, and 2nd photographer)! I don't want to be a brat about it, and thankfully hes at least willing to meet the 2nd photographer, but I'm afraid he''l still think its too much money.