Who's all having (or had) one?
I'm unsure what to do. I have a friend who I feel should/could be apart of my wedding but my fiance is really serious about not adding another bridesmaid/groomsman to the count. We agreed to 5 each. Should I ask her to be my personal attendant or is that a bit much? I've always thought it seemed a little pointless, but I've known quite a friends who had them...
What do you think? Do they really serve a purpose or is it just a gentle way of having them in your wedding without being a BM?