Peeved that he went out over the weekend?

I would say maybe you're overreacting a little. It is good to have your space and your own friends. But if he insists on always being with you when you go out - then i can see why you're bothered by this. You should be able to go out without him as well.

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I guess I'm scarred from past experiences. When my ex would go out, I didn't know what he was up to. He pretended not to have plans on Wednesday nights and go to the bar every week w/out me.

View Quoted Comment I completely understand the fear. My FH did that (although not to the bar, but to a friend’s house) in the months leading up to our first break up. It’s taken me a long time to trust that he was doing what he said he was doing. Luckily things are much better for us now, and we’re in a much better place, but the gut reaction is still there.

However, your FH is not your ex. Has he given you any reason to believe he might not be where he’s said he’s going? I would recommend trying really hard not to pin your ex’s habits on your FH. I know it’s easier said than done, but that’s one thing that can drive a major wedge into an otherwise wonderful relationship.

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He has def not caused any heartache even close to what my ex did. I have to treat this relationship different as he has never lied to me or tricked me.