I know everyone mourns and handles things differently . Last night my fiancé uncle passed away . I feel terribly sorry for him. I’m very close to his family especially his mom who just lost her brother . We’ve been together for 2 years going on 3 . I never met the uncle but heard great things about him . My fiance told me His plan to go visit family / funeral . I asked him if he wanted me to go and he said no .
Is that usual ? I understand if I was his girl friend . But we’ve been together for sometime and have been engaged for a year .
It’s hard because I don’t want to make it about me .