I was originally planning on crocheting a shrug type thing for my girls but now that it's getting closer I don't know if I will have the time and I'm having trouble finding the colors I want in the yarn that I prefer to use plus i'm having trouble finding pretty brooches to hold them in place so i'm thinking of just getting pashminas instead. The 3 girls will be wearing Plum and we only have my brother who is walking me down and the groom and bestman wearing Gray. What color Pashmina's should I get??? The girls dresses may not all be the same shade of plum because they didn't get them at the same store. Gray, black, silver? Also where did you get your Pashmina's?