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Lisa
Rockstar July 2022

Parents Attire

Lisa, on July 8, 2024 at 11:37 AM

Posted in Wedding Attire 32

When it comes to the attire of the parents of the couple, how did you decide? Did you choose the color and let them pick their own outfit? Did you sit down together to look through options and agree on a specific outfit? Or did they choose everything related to their attire (color, style, etc)?
When it comes to the attire of the parents of the couple, how did you decide? Did you choose the color and let them pick their own outfit? Did you sit down together to look through options and agree on a specific outfit? Or did they choose everything related to their attire (color, style, etc)?

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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I had a similar thought when it came to the moms attire. No preference at all on what they wore. My husband's mom asked us about what color we wanted her to wear, and we told her to pick out whatever color she wanted. I had no discussion with my mom about what color she would wear (and she didn't ask), she ended up picking our her own attire.
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  • Kennedy
    Just Said Yes October 2026
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    I’m letting my parents pick their outfits, my mom wants me to pick a color for her, but otherwise I’m leaving it up to them!
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  • Alisha
    Rockstar April 2021
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    You are right there no wrong answer to parents attire. It is interesting to hear everyone’s opinions bc everyone has different ideas on how to determine parents attire. For me, I gave my dad the option bc I kinda knew he may not want to match the groomsmen. Giving him the option made it easier and it worked out. It does take the stress off a little.
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  • Neal
    Just Said Yes June 2024
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    Thanks very much. Tried to attach a photograph of how all the parents looked. This includes his parents, and my parents and step-parents in the picture.

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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    Fun that you went dress shopping with your mom as she looked for something to wear to your wedding! Glad to hear that she found a dress she liked.
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    I think it's totally valid to suggest colors! In many cases, I feel like parents appreciate the guidance as colors, since it gives them a starting point in their search.
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    Ooh, I like how you kept the same suits, but did a different tie color for the dads! It both groups everyone together and also helps them stand out at the same time.
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    Makes sense! I think a lot of parents appreciate being given guidance on colors to wear, as it gives them a starting point on their search for attire. What color are you thinking that you want your mom to wear?
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  • Kennedy
    Just Said Yes October 2026
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    Probably a plum purple, she’s blonde and has green eyes so I think that would look really good on her. I’ve got my MIL in a wisteria purple that I think looks really nice with her complexion, dark hair and blue eyes!
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    Awesome that it took some stress away from you! Wedding planning is stressful enough, and having one less thing to worry about is always a bonus.
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    Ooh, wisteria is a pretty color! I was a bridesmaid in a wedding once where the bride chose wisteria for the bridesmaids to wear, it all looked so pretty. Plum is stunning too - such a classy color to wear. I really like how you were intentional about choosing colors that would look good on each person!
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  • Alisha
    Rockstar April 2021
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    It did take a lot of stress off of me. I try to as much stress off of me as possible. We are wedding planning, you have to try to keep it simple and stress as much as possible.
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