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Paper vs Electronic rsvp

BecomingBecker, on November 19, 2018 at 9:59 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 45

What is everyone doing? Paper RSVP of Electronic? I've been seriously thinking about doing electronic just because I know that I'm going to have to chase down a lot of my family for their responses anyways and feel like I'd be wasting money on just another piece of paper to put with the invites... ...

What is everyone doing? Paper RSVP of Electronic? I've been seriously thinking about doing electronic just because I know that I'm going to have to chase down a lot of my family for their responses anyways and feel like I'd be wasting money on just another piece of paper to put with the invites...

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  • Vicki
    October 2018
    Vicki ·
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    Paper. Older people will not respond via electronic if you do it that way. Unfortunately, there are always people that will not respond like they should- young or old !
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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    We're doing paper with the option of online. After talking with FMIL about it it seemed the best choice for most of our guests.

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  • Gonnabeaburch
    Super July 2019
    Gonnabeaburch ·
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    We are offering both. Our Invitations are all-in-one so I will make a note that they can RSVP on our website or send the card back to us.
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  • D
    Savvy August 2019
    Danielle ·
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    Do one or the other too much
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  • Carinajoy
    Savvy August 2025
    Carinajoy ·
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    I was considering doing a mix of both! I'd put the wedding website where you can RSVP online (for all of the family that knows how to do that) and also providing RSVP cards with envelopes in the invitation. I've seen articles about how you shouldn't do online RSVPs but honestly, I don't think it will be too confusing for me, considering my guest list is fairly small with 90 people.

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