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Emily
Expert September 2020

Pantyhose + Shapewear... Awkward

Emily, on July 8, 2020 at 7:06 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 21
So I don't know if I'm just dumb, but I can't figure out how you'd do pantyhose + shapewear. My dress comes down over my hips a little bit, so once the shaper and dress is on that is not coming off - That's why I got the Spanx with the...uhh crotch opening? That doesn't sound great. Lol

Anyway, the "modified Spanx" helps if I need to pee, but then how do you put on hose?? Those would sit on hips as well... Am I going to have to get my bridesmaids to help strip me naked if I needed to pee? 😂 I feel like I'm missing something.

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Latest activity by Maybride, on July 9, 2020 at 4:25 AM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Do you need pantyhose? I would just skip them.
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  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
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    Like Hannah said, I would skip the pantyhose. I’m not even going to wear shape wear as my dress has a low back and I don’t want to have to deal with the exact issue you’re thinking about!
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
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    Girl I don't know if you realize how pale I am. Just so pale.
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    Ashley ·
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    If your dress is floor length, skip the nylons. Shape-wear like that is meant to be worn by itself.
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I'm assuming your dress is not floor length, in which case can you wear knee highs or thigh highs? Or just sunscreen? Not sure how long you'll be outside.
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
    Emily ·
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    Dang I wish I could edit my post, I think I left out crucial details that will probably make for similar comments. Shoot.
    I'm very pale, have a dress that will show my legs, and just in general do like to wear hose with heels because they make it more comfortable/ less slippy.
    Hmmm, seems like I can't delete my own post or edit... That's gonna be a bummer.
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
    Emily ·
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    Hmmm thigh highs would be an option... Guess I figured they may end up in a puddle at my feet. I can look into one of those belty things to attach. It's like getting dressed to be an astronaut out here with all the layers. Thanks for the option!

    And wait, are people using hose instead of sunscreen? That's no good lol
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  • KiwiDerbyBride
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    Most thigh highs stay up pretty well these days, even without a garter belt. I reckon that might be your best option.

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    Master July 2019
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    Haha I don't think so. I never wear hose unless it's winter and they're warmer tights, and I'm also incredibly pale. I just figured since you mentioned being pale, you were concerned about sun exposure. They also sell no show socks that work with heels.
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  • VIP August 2020
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    Is the shapewear too slippery to put the pantyhose over it? If it is, or if it would be too difficult to pull them down while you have your dress on, maybe you could you make a hole in the pantyhose that lines up with the opening in the spanx? That way you could put them on under the spanx and then not think about them until you're ready to take all of it off.

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    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    I’ve heard of people cutting the crotch out of panty hose.
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
    Emily ·
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    Y'all this might be what I go with. Hey, it's like $5 and one time use. Let's do this!
    😉


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  • Sinaya
    Devoted August 2022
    Sinaya ·
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    This whole post is hilarious. You made me smile. By the way it's called an "open gusset."

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  • Mindy
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    Mindy ·
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    I wouldn’t do full party hose. Maybe thigh highs instead?
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
    Emily ·
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    Not a crotch opening? 😂
    Yeah, I'd usually do picture posts like I did for my dress and flowers, but I'm sensing that's a bad idea. Lol
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
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    I feel like I'll fiddle around with that, so I think I'm doing the very scientific and sophisticated solution of "rip a hole in it."
    The quickest way between two points....is a hole in the fabric of space-time aka grip it and rip it.
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
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    I am both always worried about sun exposure, and quite pale. I tend to wear hose like nearly all the time in public, mainly to stop commentary on my nearly translucent gams.
    I wear spf 70 under it all, because I truly am the world's palest ginger. ✌️
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    Master July 2019
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    Lol I feel you, although I'm blonde instead of ginger. I just have no shame. If someone doesn't like my pale legs, they can look away.
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
    Emily ·
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    You do you! Mine blind oncoming cars and small children.
    tenor.gif

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    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    I'm a pale blonde who burns on sight but I don't do hose/tights/etc at anytime and have never had an issue with legs sunburning and have accepted that I will never tan. I think I wore hose once when I was a kid under a dress and threw them away afterward. The thing that drove me crazy is that my feet slid all over in the shoes with hose as opposed to barefoot.


    Thigh highs are an option. I'm sure they've designed them so they don't slip down on their own.
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