Hello all!
My fiance and I are very low key. The only things we would like out of our wedding is to get married under cathedral pines and to celebrate with our close family and friends. The rest is all fluff. I have found three locations that have the ceremony pines I'm looking for, within our budget. One is a venue that is perfect but so poor in responding, its taken them two weeks to answer an email or phone call even after our date was set. We have cut ties with them and will not be going back. The other will not let us perform the ceremony in the location I'm looking for and the last doesn't take reservations until the first of the year so planning ahead is hard. We are looking to get married next September but after each failed attempt to create our dream it has made me so sick and tired of trying to accomplish our goal. I really don't want to give up on my dream wedding but I am so close to throwing in the towel and just heading to the courthouse.
We have a one year old daughter and would like to get started on our second child but would prefer to be married first. He has already told me this wedding is for me. He would marry me whenever, wherever, and however just as long as we get to spend our lives together. Do I forgo my dream wedding and head to the courthouse so we can try for our second child or do we wait it out in hopes everything will come together? At this point I am so tired of everything not working that this has become more of a nuisance than a blessing.
Has anyone let go of their wedding dreams for something more simple to grow their family?
