Over or Under: 27k Wedding Budget?

Waaaay under (thankfully). We also live in an area, though, where you can almost always pull off a $10k wedding (which is what we're doing) unless you go into the major cities!

Way over!

Our budget for just the wedding (rehearsal dinner, ceremony/reception) is $50K. That doesn't include my engagement ring (custom designed/made) or our mini-moon and honeymoon.

That "average" cost is totally misleading. What you have is a few people who go way over, and most who are way under.

For example, suppose you have five couples. Four have $10,000 weddings. One has a $95,000 wedding. Average cost is now $27,000. But that doesn't mean that most people are anywhere near that. And that's even leaving aside that people who answer those surveys tend to have higher cost weddings. (The people who just go to the courthouse over their lunch hour never end up on the industry's list of people to contact for the surveys.) Of course, the wedding industry is happy to have the misleading statistics, because then they can convince people that they are getting a real deal, even if they are spending about what most people spend.

As for us, we were at $10,000. And that was with ceremony and luncheon for about a dozen people in one high cost area, and at-home reception for 60 people in a different high cost area.

WAY under! Our main vendors are around $5000 and we're hoping to spend less than $1000 on a honeymoon.

Over.... especially when counting honeymoon and rings....

Waaay under i think we are right about 1200 dress included

We're way under. I can't imagine getting an engagement ring that costs more than a honeymoon like the infographic says is average.

$10k engagement ring, $28k wedding (if you include our wedding rings), and possibly no honeymoon. So I guess we are pretty average for our budget!

Funny story: My mom told me she'd like me to stay under $5k when I first got engaged. Then she started getting excited and told me all the things I have to have at the wedding. I don't mind her upgrades one bit as long as she's the one paying!

Way, way, way under. Our budget is around $3k including honeymoon. Obviously we’re not having a fancy affair but it works for us.

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I had always said that too! But I am one of two daughters, and my sister wants an elopement to Scotland. So I think my mom wants to pour in all the details for the only traditional wedding she'll get to be MOB for. And I will treasure these memories forever!

Not at all hating on you for being under!!! Just shedding some light from a girl who had your perspective and then changed

It's ONE DAY! There's no way in hell I would spend $20k or even $10k on a WEDDING! Lol. I have three children who have college funds that need to be filled within the next several years. This is so insane. No judgement or anything but ehhhh.... that's a lot for one day.

Well under that. I'm doing a lot of things myself (making favors, chalkboard signs), and we are using minimal flowers since we're getting married outside in a gorgeous natural setting (it doesn't need much). And the flowers we do use will then go inside for the reception. We have a small-ish guest list, too, which helps.

Over 😅 we're in California (LA/OC) and expecting about 300 guests so...

Lol I'll just say we're over.

We are way under that including flights and hotels. No way would we spend that much on a wedding

Under thank goodness. Ours is looking like it’ll be about $20k but I’m hoping I can get it down more.

Excluding rings and the honeymoon we are right around that number. Maybe slightly over. Based in Wichita, KS where things are generally less expensive. Just get a venue that has decor/tables/linens, etc. already included can save ya tons. Wish I would of known that in the beginning!

We didn’t go into our wedding with a budget, we just tried to keep things simple and small. We spent around $10,000 for everything (including my engagement ring and our wedding bands). We had a short engagement and paid cash as we went for everything, I suspect if we had longer engagement we might have spent more. However, this number doesn’t include a honey since we didn’t go on one.

Under! And hoping it stays that way!

My budget it’s between $10-15k.