I was just wondering thoughts on this subject. I have been to a few weddings where the bartenders put out a tip jar. Despite thinking it rude, we tipped because we felt we had to.
At my first wedding, my father made them remove the tip jar because he had already paid an 18% gratuity on the total cost of our affair to the all inclusive type wedding facility. At the end of the evening, he gave the bartenders an additional tip.
For those having open bars, what do you think about tip jars. I truly feel they are in bad taste.