My fiance's brother told us he will not be attending our wedding bc we are not allowing him to bring his new girlfriend. Earlier this year, he broke up with his girlfriend and baby momma of 8 years. The family (myself included) still consider his ex girlfriend family, especially since they have a child together, & she still comes over and brings the grandchild around.
The new girlfriend is a family friend and I've actually met her and she's nice. The family has refused to acknowledge this new relationship and has also told me NOT to invite her. His family is VERY small to begin with, as of now, only his parents, and his brother's ex girlfriend and his niece are coming. I am paying for this wedding. I want an intimate wedding with people we both know. It's also been awkward with just his brother and the family (and ex), because no one really talks to him, and we've NEVER met her as his girlfriend. I feel bad that his family presence is going to be so small.
