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Super June 2019

One month out and it’s falling apart

Tiffany, on May 22, 2019 at 10:19 PM Posted in Planning 0 3
So this wedding journey has been a huge struggle all along. We’ve been working so much to pay for it and we are in the home stretch. I was finally starting to breathe that things were falling into place and getting details nailed down with my planner/doc.
well this morning I get a message from her that due to a family emergency she may not be available for our day. She said it’s a high probability. She’s trying to find a replacement but with a month to go I don’t know that she can.
she literally was in charge of all the decor and coordination along with making sure everything got done and fielding problems. Making my timeline...she was the only thing I had to count on things going smoothly.
also one of my bridesmaids and her family who we are extremely close can’t make it for the same reason.
trying not to panic and hoping it will work out but omg you guys. We don’t have family to take care of it and it will add sooo much work on this wedding to my plate that I already can’t handle.
If one more thing goes wrong before we even get there I may explode 😭

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on May 24, 2019 at 9:36 AM
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    Breathe. Who the H has a scheduled "family emergency ". Sounds fishy. Ok, back to you. You got this. Everything's going to be alright. Another DOC is going to swoop in and make sure your day is magical and stress free. Breathe.
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  • Chariece & Sterling
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    Sending positive vibes for your wedding day to be everything you envisioned.
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    Hi Tiffany.

    I’m so sorry to read about this situation. Sending you a big e-hug Smiley heart

    It’s disappointing that your bridesmaid and her family won’t be able to make it. I hope they are ok and that the family emergency gets resolved in a favorable way. It’s difficult, but focus on all the people you and your FS love that will be able to make it.

    Has your planner/doc give you a timeline on when she’ll know her plans, and when she might have a replacement secured?

    What does your contract say about her canceling? Would you get enough money back to be able to hire another DOC?

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