Is it rude of us not to provide thank you gifts ?
None of my family has helped us for an entire year in wedding planning and 3-2months before our wedding,
they want to help (but shunned us and didn't involve themselves when I asked about a lot of things - mostly got ignored by pretty much my whole family) and make horrid comments saying "we could have done this and that" "you wouldn't involve us but there you go" (i did, multiple times) and the way they've treated me has been unbelievable .
Some of my family are now buying food for afternoon tea because "they want to be a part of the day" so i let them do that...
however, What should i do? Buy gifts or not?
