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Jessica
Super July 2011

OMG I'm ready to scream!!!

Jessica, on December 2, 2009 at 9:38 PM

Posted in Planning 33

So my FH tells me that he has some news for me... and so he starts telling me how his cousin (who I can't stand mind you) got engaged so I'm like hmm okay... what's the big deal, congrats to her; but of course that couldn't be the end of it... so it turns out that she has decided that they're...

So my FH tells me that he has some news for me... and so he starts telling me how his cousin (who I can't stand mind you) got engaged so I'm like hmm okay... what's the big deal, congrats to her; but of course that couldn't be the end of it... so it turns out that she has decided that they're getting married in 2011... so I was starting to look at him funny like "ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?!" But then he tells me how she is thinking of getting married shortly before us... I asked how shortly then he tells me THE DAY BEFORE!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG I can freakin scream!!!! We have been engaged for almost 7 months and have had a date for about 3 months already and have made it clear to the family of when the date is and now this heifer gets engaged and thinks she's going to get married the day before us!??! Then I guess he told her our date and so she decided to possibly move their date UP! I know it's not so bad if they get married in a different month, but the fact that their family is a bit odd...

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  • ladylee
    Master June 2010
    ladylee ·
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    Say what now? the same venue?! lol i'm sorry but she is SO thirsty! girl don't worry about her. she is not even on your level.

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  • Jessica
    Super July 2011
    Jessica ·
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    See now you know why I was on 10 yesterday! lol

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  • S
    Dedicated June 2010
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    You definitely can't choose what others do: my sister, of all people, did the SAME THING to me. INFURIATING, I totally understand. Just stay strong and make your day about you and ignore what she does--- trust me, it's the only way!

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  • ladylee
    Master June 2010
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    Lol! I'm sorry but i am LITERALLY laughing out loud. she is so pathetic. well you KNOW without question that she's trying to get to you. so just don't let her see you sweat. you haven't told her your wedding colors have you? lol

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  • Jessica
    Super July 2011
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    Lol... ladylee... don't edge me on!!! lol... I don't think so, but whatever... I'm not changing anything. Our wedding is in July of 2011 and save the dates and party favors are already done. I'm not throwing that money away, so she can go fly a kite for lack of better words! :-) lol

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  • jessica
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    She wants to be you wow thats sad you shouldn't be mad you should just laugh at t and like you said your not going to change anything and i wouldn't either b/c your going to have your dream wedding to hell with her

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  • JJ
    Master December 2009
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    Omg, are there ppl like this in this world? i was sitting here feeling sorry for myself for having the kind of sister that i do....but even she would not do what your fsil is doing...i was thinking, can your story be real? yes, i guess so...omg...she is so pathetic...you have my deepest sympathies....stay strong.

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  • celebratepaint
    Dedicated April 2010
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    WOW. I thought people like that only existed in TV dramas! I am so sorry. She sounds like a pretty horrible person. Ha, I would first try and move your wedding BEFORE hers, then not invite her, lol. Just kidding. SHE needs to make the change obviously.

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  • Marcea Copeland
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    I would just try and ignore her. I am happy she change the date because that was just ridiculous. Remember it does not matter when she is getting married as long as it is not the same week.

    Also do not talk about decorations or plans with her or anyone who would talk to her because she sounds like the type of girl who would take any idea you had planned. Good luck.

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  • Jrsgirl1
    Devoted May 2013
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    Ladylee, U R A FUNNY person! I agree with everything you said tho. Dont give her anymore Info sbout your wedding causeshe is apparently jealousof you and trying to be

    Y-O-U!

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  • Alex&Teresa
    Dedicated July 2010
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    Wow ladies I know just how you feel I have been engaged for three years this June at my fathers birthday I announced our wedding plans for 7/24/2010 my older sister who was not even engaged yet decided to get married this december just so she could be married before me

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  • Nora McCoy
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    Go ahead and send out your Save-The-Dates mention the church and Reception Venue in the save-the- date if need be, this way family will know that you did plan first. Do not let anyone ruin your big day!

    Nora

    PPP

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  • Cathasach
    VIP June 2010
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    I would almost rather she got married the day before just so your guests could kill 2 birds with 1 stone... but a month before... that's just awful!

    At least you have a jump on things! I hope it all works out for you!

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