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Shannon
Super May 2017

NWR: life as an introvert (rant)

Shannon, on February 5, 2017 at 2:08 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 29

Just had to vent as an introvert with severe social anxiety.... Went to my friends birthday party tonight at a local bar, wasn't really drinking because I had to drive and was riding solo on account of FH working nights. I should say that generally any sort of social situation gives me intense...

Just had to vent as an introvert with severe social anxiety....

Went to my friends birthday party tonight at a local bar, wasn't really drinking because I had to drive and was riding solo on account of FH working nights. I should say that generally any sort of social situation gives me intense anxiety, I envy social butterflies because I couldn't be more opposite- just having to walk into a party or social gathering alone is enough to send my nerves off the charts. I didn't know this group particularly well with the exception of three people, two of which left pretty early and the other being the birthday girl who was busy entertaining her many guests.

So begins the part of the night where this group (of near strangers) repeatedly tries to drag me onto the dance floor and badger me for staying in my chair- I literally wanted to scream leave me the fuck alone at the top of my lungs but instead just opted to leave. Instant relief the second I got into my car. Continued in comments...

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  • Shannon
    Super May 2017
    Shannon ·
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    @Joleen - I get that so much, the sarcastic comments about me being quiet- because ya know nothing brings someone out of their shell quicker than antagonizing them lol

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  • MizzzCara
    Master June 2017
    MizzzCara ·
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    I'm the same way. I can't walk into a party alone! I'd be totally uncomfortable. I don't go shopping alone either because I feel like everyone is looking at me going 'why tf are you alone?' ... which I know no one is saying that. Ha However, with that being said, I know that sometimes I need to be pulled out of my comfort zone to really get to enjoy different and new things. Keep that in mind!

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  • LuvBeingMarried2Him!
    VIP July 2016
    LuvBeingMarried2Him! ·
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    I just feel so much pressure when people are pushing me up to dance telling me to 'have fun'! Why because I don't act like you I'm not fun? Totally stresses me out too when people just don't respect our feelings. Doesn't mean we aren't having a good time, just means we are more comfortable doing what we're doing.

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  • MrsDrum
    Master June 2017
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    I'm a social butterfly and very outgoing but I still hate it when people try to make me dance. I don't enjoy dancing and it's rude to try to make me then tease me when I say no!!!

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  • Klynn
    Devoted August 2017
    Klynn ·
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    You're my spirit animal.

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  • FutureMrsQ2017
    VIP October 2017
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    I completely understand. I have friends that don't understand that either. Happy to see there are so many other ladies on here who are such introverts as well, even though it can be quite frustrating at times!

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  • Dena
    Master April 2017
    Dena ·
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    This happens to me all the time!!

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  • Chariece & Sterling
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    Chariece & Sterling ·
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    I was called an introvert by a former supervisor. And anti social by other football parents. I just went to a co-worker to show support. She was not there when I arrived, which was fine. Even though I didn't know any one else. But what got on my damn nerves every five minutes someone would ask are you okay?. Shannon I understand that people don't get that if they leave you alone. You would be okay !!!!!

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  • Nikki
    Super September 2017
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    Oh man I give you mad credit for even going. I have a lot of anxiety issues. Among people I'm comfortable with, I am that social butterfly. Around a group I don't know? My stomach would've been in knots driving there.

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