Ours is probably going to be around $13k-$14k after everything is finalized. We're getting married in a really small town an hour and a half away from where we live so things are a lot less expensive. Our wedding would've been double-triple the cost in our current city.
I mean expensive is wildly subjective. For two grad student where only one of you can legally work outside of school, our wedding was downright extravagant. Our original budget was $5k which just could not work in the area we wanted to be.
We ended up with a $15k budget and that is, for the area we chose, incredibly affordable.
We gave ourselves a budget of 60K for a 250 guest wedding in LA. We are only a few weeks away and it looks like we will come in 2K under budget. This budget doesn't include our parent's gift of all the alcohol, rehearsal dinner, and limos, which we figure is around another 10K.