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Jayla
Expert November 2013

November Brides RSVP

Jayla, on September 24, 2013 at 9:55 AM Posted in Planning 0 22

What is your RSVP deadline? I mailed my invites early September. Giving more then a month to RSVP. My cut off date is October 15th. Which is a month prior. I just refuse to be worrying about RSVP after that date. We will do our calls, text and facebook post a week before the deadline. How bout you? ?

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Latest activity by Lillian, on September 27, 2013 at 9:58 PM
  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    My wedding is November 30. Invitations are going in the mail October 5. RSVP date is November 8.

    I wouldn't start contacting anyone about their RSVPs until October 16 (or even the 17 or 18). You gave them until the 15th. Let them have until the 15th.

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  • Jayla
    Expert November 2013
    Jayla ·
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    Yea that makes sense. Thanks!!

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  • Kimberly
    Expert November 2013
    Kimberly ·
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    Our wedding is November 22nd, we mailed the invitations out over the Labor Day long weekend & our RSVP date is October 21st. Our venue needs numbers 14 business days before the big day & we left some time to contact those who haven't replied!

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  • KristnH
    Master November 2013
    KristnH ·
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    Our wedding is Nov 17. We mailed invitations in early September and th RSVP date is Oct. 17, so a month before. That gives us 2 weeks to wrangle any stragglers before I new to give my final head count to the venue (2 weeks in advance).

    I won't be calling anyone who didn't RSVP until after the deadline has passed though.

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  • GettingHitched
    Super November 2013
    GettingHitched ·
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    My wedding is November 22 and I sent the invites out 9/16 with an rsvp date of November 9. My venue needs a preliminary count 2 weeks before the wedding, but we have until 3 days before to give the final count. Our wedding is going to be small, about 50 people so we are close to all of them and can hunt then down easily for their rsvps. :-)

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  • MrsReed
    Expert November 2013
    MrsReed ·
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    My wedding is 11/10, I mailed mine out 9/14 and deadline is 10/20. Figured that gave me enough time to call those who had not responded.

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  • kristinelizabeth
    Dedicated November 2013
    kristinelizabeth ·
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    My wedding is 11/30 - we sent out invites over Labor Day (a little early, but it worked for us). RSVP date is 10/11. Our venue doesn't need a count until 11/15 but we are planning long distance and I wanted to have everything organized. So far we have almost all RSVPs in; only missing a handful.

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  • SXC
    VIP November 2013
    SXC ·
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    Sent invites our last Monday (though I have about 10 in my bag that have to go out today). RSVP is Oct 16th, a month before the wedding. Need food counts 2 weeks prior so I figure an extra week for RSVP's to arrive after the cut off day and another week for me to call people.

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  • Mrs. J
    Expert November 2013
    Mrs. J ·
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    Our wedding is November 1 and our RSVP date was September 15. We have to have all our numbers and food choices to our venue in Key West by Oct 1 so I needed RSVPs!

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  • Swandra
    Dedicated November 2013
    Swandra ·
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    Our wedding is November 2 and our RSVP deadline was last Friday (Sept 21). We are currently in the process of texting, e-mailing, facebooking and calling those who have not responded. Have even heard that they didn't know that they were supposed to send the RSVP back!

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  • ChristinaR
    Dedicated November 2013
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    Our wedding is November 16th and our RSVP date is October 15th. We just sent them out last week and the RSVPs are starting to roll in. I've been praying for declines, but it's just so exciting to get the YES ones!

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  • Abby
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    Abby ·
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    I'm Nov 17 like my date twin KristnB! We mailed the bulk of the invites on Sept 14 with a RSVP by date of Oct 18.

    I don't plan to bug anyone for responses. They know what to do and by when it needs to be done.

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  • Azbride
    Super November 2013
    Azbride ·
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    Our wedding is Nov. 2nd and we put Oct. 2nd as the RSVP deadline. I sent everyone on our list an invite and RSVP but finding that most of FH's extended family just responding via phone call not sending RSVP's back. Either is fine with me as long as we know.

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  • Laura
    Master November 2013
    Laura ·
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    Our RSVP deadline is 10-10, a month before our wedding. We mailed invites about 3 weeks ago I think. So far, we've received about a third of our rsvps back. My guests still have two weeks, but if they don't get their butts in gear and send those RSVPs back, I'm going to have a lot of chasing people to do Smiley sad

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  • Jennifer
    VIP November 2013
    Jennifer ·
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    I put a late RSVP and I wish I hadn't! lol I put October 25th for our November 10th wedding. Luckily, I am over half way there already on replies... hoping everyone else sends them in soon and doesn't wait til the last minute Smiley smile

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  • P
    Expert November 2013
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    Awe! Soon2BMrs.Reed and Jennifer are my date buddies!! Smiley smile I sent mine out the end of Aug. and deadline is Sept 30. Venue needs to know the guest count 30 days till the big day

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  • mc4dj13
    Master November 2013
    mc4dj13 ·
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    Deadline is Oct 5th. Mailed them August 23rd

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  • Mrs.S
    Dedicated November 2013
    Mrs.S ·
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    We will be married 11/16 and our rsvp dead line is October 7 and we sent them out mid September. Smiley smile

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  • Gia4462
    Devoted November 2013
    Gia4462 ·
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    Wedding nov 1 RSVP date oct 1 only haven't had 2 RSVP they r friends so I already just texted them. Have to have completed seating chart and table cards to venue by oct 11.

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  • Linda
    Super November 2013
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    My RSVP is 10/19 3 weeks pre wedding that will give me a week to get the final count together... although I have been making it very clear to guests to get their rsvps in!!! lol

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