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November 27 2020 wedding

Dee, on May 11, 2020 at 2:45 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 13
Hey everyone just wondering what other November brides are feeling. I am still planning as if it’s a go for our date, but then you get the people asking are you postponing 😩

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Latest activity by Dee, on May 20, 2020 at 10:28 AM
  • April
    Dedicated November 2020
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    We’re November 21st, I’m definitely a little nervous but I’m trying to keep planning as if everything was normal. I’ve contacted all my vendors to make sure postponement is possible but don’t really plan on postponing unless we are forced too.. so I sort of have a Plan B but not really.. I hate the uncertainty of everything though. It’s hard to be excited for the wedding when you’re wondering if it will really happen. If we are forced to reschedule we’ve discussed the idea of getting married still in a private “ceremony” and just postponing the reception.
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  • April
    Dedicated November 2020
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    We’re also going on a 2+ year engagement so I really don’t want to wait any longer 😣
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    Beginner November 2020
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    I hear you on the engagement part I will be engaged for a year but we will be together for 12 years when we get married 😂 I just keep telling myself everything will be ok. I contacted our venue yesterday and they said it’s still ago But if we have to they will let us reschedule
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    Super October 2020
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    Ours Is 10/17 && We're Moving Forward With Full Positivity That Things Will Go As Planned.

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    Devoted December 2020
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    I’m 12/12/20 and have had 2 people ask me if I’m postponing. My response was “Nope!! Still moving forward. We still have over a half a year to go!!” So that’s what I keep telling myself, we still have months!! Still time for so much to change😊
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    I’m November 25th. I haven’t had anyone ask if we’re postponing yet, but we are trying to move forward as if it’s still happening. I have anxiety so we already have options just in case, but I am so unsure about everything lol. My man and I will be getting married on our date, (it’s our ten year anniversary) but everything else feels like it’s so up in the air. My mom has an autoimmune disease and her not being able to be there would crush me, so it’s a lot to think about!
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  • Simone
    Savvy October 2020
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    I’m 10/23/20 and still moving forward with planning. And it’s a destination wedding in Mexico. Some of my guest have reached out to say they still want to go and that they need a vacation. My mom suggested that I postponed or elope. I really don’t want to postpone. We don’t know what the future holds. I understand people concerns. But I feel that we should proceed and those that can make it, join us. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I have been planning this since the beginning of last year. Will be letting my guests know this week that we are moving forward as our state is starting to open back up next week in phases.
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  • Jade
    Expert November 2021
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    Our wedding is November 21 and we are still planning as normal, even though it’s hard because we can’t meet with potential vendors. Our reception venue just requires 10 days notice to postpone so we’re trying to stay hopeful. We’re most worried about a second wave hitting, which is also impacting the bachelor party and shower. My sister is planning and doesn’t want to set a date because we don’t know anything and my FH doesn’t know if he should move his bachelor party to a local area. I’m also worried that people will be too nervous to attend if things do start to get better. If we do have to postpone we’ll be getting married November 2021, which is super far away so hopefully that doesn’t happen.
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  • Renee
    Super June 2020
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    That's frustrating to hear all the time. I know it probably won't stop the questions, but if you have a wedding website you could direct them there. That way you don't have to answer. LOL That's what we did until we finally decided to postpone to September.

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    Everyones on edge right now. theres so much time left we could find an effective treatment that completely eradicates the need to worry about catching this virus, anything is possible. dont pay any mind to them. i would just say were moving forward and i will let u know if anything changes
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  • Amy
    WeddingWire Administrator August 2013
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    Hi Dee,

    I'm sorry that you're feeling worried in the midst of wedding planning. The general consensus for November is that it's too soon to panic, but that doesn't mean your concerns will disappear. At this point, no one really knows what to expect this fall. Here's a related discussion: November 2020 wedding - anyone postponing yet?

    If you want to consider your options and next steps, WeddingWire has created a ton of resources here: Our COVID-19 Weddings Advice Guide.

    I'm wishing you the best of luck with whatever you decide! Smiley heart

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  • Amanda
    Savvy November 2020
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    I took a break from planning... but I just kicked it back into gear. I’m going to continue with our plans for now.
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    Thanks everyone, I am still planning as we will have it so 🤞 it will work out
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