Has anyone else gone this route and invited a parent but not a step parent? FH's Dad has been divorced from his mom for about 20 years and remarried for around 15 or so. While growing up, this women treated FH and his brother like garbage. She had 2 boys of her own who we treated much better.
In their adult years it has been much of the same. She is a horrible person, constantly tries to drive a wedge between the guys and their Dad. She has said and done many horrible things over the 5 years we have been together.
We have decided she is not welcome. She has made it clear she wants nothing to do with us so we see no need to invite her. We fully understand his Dad may not come, but he is a big boy an can make his own decision. We know its not proper etiquette but at this point we DGAF