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Gen
Champion June 2019

Not enough chairs for family - 2nd row

Gen, on May 20, 2019 at 10:18 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 4

So we are assigning seating in the first row for my and FH's immediate families, but we were thinking it would probably be nice to reserve the 2nd row for my other relatives (FH only has 5 relatives coming so his would just be the front row).

Anyway, I counted how many other relatives I have coming to the wedding (in addition to the 5 on my side of the front row) and there are 11 additional relatives. This is... super inconvenient, because the rows of chairs are 5 on each side of the aisle (so the second row has 10 seats), so there's going to be one extra person...

How would you handle this? My mom said to just reserve the 2nd row and then the aisle seat of one 3rd row chair... but no one is going to want to be the one relative that sits alone in the third row behind all the others -.- I was thinking then maybe reserve 8 of the 10 2nd row seats, and then 2 in the 3rd row? Though then this seems excessively complicated for something that shouldn't be...

Thoughts?

4 Comments

Latest activity by Clíodhna, on May 23, 2019 at 7:22 AM
  • Kimber
    Devoted June 2020
    Kimber ·
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    I would say if it doesn't work out neatly, don't assign the seating. Relatives usually know to sit closer to the front and guests know to avoid the first 2 rows unless they are close family. No use adding stress over something that probably won't be an issue.

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  • Haley
    Dedicated April 2020
    Haley ·
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    I agree with Shannon. Don't assign anything other than the first row. They might not even want to sit in the second row anyway. Some people don't like the idea of being caught in a picture or video.
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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·
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    Assign seats to immediate family only (i.e. parents and grandparents). We only reserved the first row of the church for our families but we did not assign seats. We mostly wanted to make sure guests who were not family didn't take up the very first row, but its common knowledge the family sits towards the front anyhow.

    I'd just worry about your parents and grandparents and let the rest of the family decide where they want to sit. If they really want a great close-up seat, they will likely get there early enough to do so.

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hi Gen Smiley smile

    I would personally agree with Shannon and Haley here. If there isn’t a straight forward to assign these seat, simply leave them unassigned and just have your first rows reserved. A family and relatives typically know to sit near the front at a wedding!

    Ask yourself if it’s worth the extra work and logistics. If not, focus your energy into something else you need to do for the wedding.

    How do you think you will proceed now that you’ve had time to think about?

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