What do you do when you feel like you and your FS don't agree on most things wedding? I understand compromise and giving in. I have actually done that on several things - like given in on half or more than half so far.
I figured this wedding planning would be an absolute breeze, especially a year out. FH never wanted a wedding in the first place, so I figured I would just ask him his thoughts on things just so there isn't anything he hates at the wedding. We agreed on SO MUCH in the beginning and now he keeps changing his mind on every last thing we both agreed on and were happy with. He is also extremely stubborn and hard-headed. I feel like he is wanting everything his way instead of ours.
Yes we are going to do premarital counseling, we are waiting a few more months. He is also reluctant to do that as well.
Anyone have advice on how to get him to compromise with me? I honestly feel like my wants aren't a lot to ask for especially compared to his. I want him to get through his think skull that this is OUR wedding, not just his, not just mine, and certainly NOT his family's.
