Non-traditional Bridesmaids

I think this is a good compromise. Go for it!

I think that's fine, as long as they sit in the first row. I've seen this in churches where the front isn't big enough for everyone.

Personally, I don't see any issue with your FH making a request like that, no offense to some other ladies on this thread... It's his wedding too, and if you're both willing to compromise, which it seems like you are, then there's nothing wrong with it and it's a really good sign for your marriage. Definitely talk about your idea with your FH, as it seems he's pretty involved in planning. Sounds very agreeable to me. I'm actually considering stealing the idea, lol.

I think that’s a perfect plan. I’m doing something similar since my ceremony is a traditional Iranian ceremony so bridesmaid are not a thing. But I’m having my girls, bachelorette party, having them walk down the aisle, and just sitting there front row until I need something !

It have been a long while, but I have seen bridal parties sit and only the couple stand before.

This is what we are having to do for the same exact reasons your FH doesn't want them standing up there with you two... Our priest feels the same way. So they are still walking and then they will be seated. I don't see any problem with it. I was a little upset at first. But, it is what the Priest says we have to do.

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I was very honest about this with my 2 bridesmaids and they saw no issue in it. I am still getting my parties. I didn't ask them they are just doing it. Everything else is still the same minus them standing up there is the only exception.

I don't see why that would be an issue at all.

I've been to ceremonies before where the bridal party sits. I don't think it's a big deal.

I've never seen it done but I have heard of it done on here, I don't see any issues with treating them exactly the same as a normal bridal party and the only difference is they sit instead of stand, I wouldn't be insulted or anything as a bridesmaid. One thing to consider: personally as a guest I would be more distracted if the bridal party were sitting. I'd probably murmur to my fiance or whoever I was sitting with for a quick second and be like "whats up with that?" It'd probably distract me for the first few minutes of your ceremony while I thought up of reasons why you maybe did it (in my head, of course) & I'd definitely expect people to ask you about it afterwards. People like to have something different to talk about with you other than "congrats, you look beautiful!". Everyones going to think its unique to go "oh, hey, also, why did you do that?" as a way to make conversation. I'd expect judgement from anybody judgey about wedding stuff (they'll find something to judge anyways so doesn't matter), but I'd figure most people wouldn't really care, just would be making conversation, so I'd say don't be upset with anyone who mentions it, they're probably not judging you!
Think about the times you've been to weddings: you look at the bridesmaids as they walk up, but the second the bride is in the room all eyes are on her and the grooms reaction. The bridesmaids disappear pretty instantly from your mind. Talk to your fiance about if this should really be a concern.
In short: Nothing wrong with it at all! But I think it might have the opposite effect your fiance intends it to have. If your bridesmaids sit, it'll be the first thing people talk about when asked about your wedding. "It was beautiful! Good food! Great time! She looked great! Also, the bridesmaids were sitting?" If you don't want that tacked on to post wedding conversations, I'd do it normally, if you don't care, go for it! If you are making any non-traditional decision, it'll be talked about first. IMO, make that non-traditional thing something fun about you guys, not about the bridal party, but I really think you're fine either way if your fiance really doesn't want them to stand.

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Same. It was in a big Catholic church and only the bride and groom stood at the alter. We went up after the vows were said right before they were announced and then walked in the recessional after.

I have seen this many times. They've all stayed standing with the rest of the guests and once everyone is asked to sit, they sit. They usually have the front rows reserved for them then the parents, grandparents etc are on the row behind them.

Once the ceremony was over, they filed out after the bride and groom.

I've been to weddings where the bridal party sits (they were all more religious weddings with formal masses in a church) but it seemed fine to me. They had the bridesmaids and groomsmen sit on opposite sides in the front row. I don't think it looked weird at all!