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danilaughs
Expert August 2018

Non-matching ring sets

danilaughs, on November 14, 2017 at 10:51 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 21

I am having the hardest time finding a wedding band that I like to go with my engagement ring. I'm thinking about just doing something in an entirely different style and metal than my engagement ring. Does anybody have non matching sets? I need some inspiration!

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Latest activity by danilaughs, on November 15, 2017 at 11:15 PM
  • Stephannie
    Super December 2017
    Stephannie ·
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    Hey op! I have a non matching set but my FH actually bought it that way and I love it! Rose gold marquise champagne diamond solitaire with white gold white diamonds band. Attached is them together! Loveeeee non matching sets! This is the stock photo (he purchased on Etsy)


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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    My wedding band was a gift from my ILs so it doesn't match my engagement ring. I love it and like the mixed metals


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  • golferchick
    Savvy September 2018
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    Dani, post a pic of your ring so we can help ..

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  • danilaughs
    Expert August 2018
    danilaughs ·
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    @golferchick My ring. Oval genuine sapphire with diamond halo, white gold ring. But I keep being attracted to yellow gold bands with hammering or unique shapes!

    Eta ladies, I love both of your sets! The first very geometric looking one is totally my style, too!


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  • CD
    Expert May 2018
    CD ·
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    Pretty! Is that a sapphire? My FH proposed with a claddagh band and we went and designed a sapphire ring together. Since they don't match or stack, I'm planning on just wearing one on each ring finger. Not sure there is any set rule that they must stack. Tradition sure but I love both of mine on their own. May be something to consider.

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  • golferchick
    Savvy September 2018
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    Love your ring, Dani... do you want something that snuggles up to your ring or a unique shape that has a gap?

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  • danilaughs
    Expert August 2018
    danilaughs ·
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    I'm really worried that if I don't get something that fits up against my e-ring, that it'll rile my anxiety/OCD which I know is ridiculous but it is what it is. Yet, I haven't found a single curved band that I like!

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  • L
    Just Said Yes March 2018
    Leann ·
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    I have a similar issue with my ring and haven't found my wedding band yet either..have u thought of a plain silver? band

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  • Mary
    Dedicated June 2018
    Mary ·
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    I have a very similar ring (love the sapphires!) and I went with a diamond band that snugs up against the e-ring. I would get a white gold band and then let the ring and band go yellow (not have them rodium dipped) if i wanted a yellow gold band.

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  • Mrswelch
    Master December 2017
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    My set is totally mixed and matched lol. Go for what you like!


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  • Lilian17
    Dedicated November 2017
    Lilian17 ·
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    Sam and sue can help you. Google them they design wedding bands samnsue.com

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  • KatieMBY
    VIP January 2018
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    I suppose mine is non-matching. I have a solitaire with a raised setting, which scroll like detailing. My wedding band is a vintage-style.


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  • LillyBean17
    Master October 2017
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    Mine do not match but complement each other.

    You could also skip the band if you want, it's not a requirement for marriage. My aunt has a pretty unique and interesting ring so she decided to skip the band altogether since she couldn't find anything else she liked with it.

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  • mataDC
    Devoted September 2017
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    I had a custom e-ring and realized we couldn't afford custom bands to match. Couldn't find a complementary band in stores. Then I was experimenting with some costume jewelry I already had and realized that not 1 but 2 chevron bands worked.


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  • mataDC
    Devoted September 2017
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    Another shot with the chevron bands facing opposite directions


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  • Mrs. Librarian
    VIP November 2016
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    I just got a matching Anniversary band in rose gold for our 1 year to match my wedding band and my engagement ring was my great-grandmother's. I love the uniqueness of my set.


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  • fallinthegarden
    Master October 2017
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    Mine coordinate but don't match. I wanted to be able to wear my band separately and have it stand alone. Here's the two best pictures I have to show the set together.



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  • Oceankissed
    Super November 2017
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    Mine are. It matching per say. My engagement ring is a aquamarine (my birthstone) and my wedding ring(s) is a diamond band.


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  • Kelly
    Just Said Yes September 2018
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    I'm having a hard time with bands also because of the infinity band. FH has one in mind but we went to the jeweler the other day and they don't fit nicely with each other and I'd like the put together after the wedding. Anyone have suggestions of a band that fits good with an infinity band?


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  • Kylee
    Dedicated June 2018
    Kylee ·
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    I'm having the same problem! When my FH got my ring they told him there are lots of wedding bands and in reality there were 5-6 bands that went with my ring and I'm not a huge fan of any of them.

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