So one of my bridesmaids have not been communicating anything about the wedding. My MOH asked her if she’d like to help with the shower, bi response. I tried to ask her about her dress in May, no response. I am letting my girls pick their dresses from azazie. As of today it says delivery time would be September 1st-6th. My wedding is October 3rd. All my other bridesmaids have either ordered their dress or are ordering this weekend after pay day. I sent the non communicating bridesmaid this message
“ Hey *****! I wanted to see if you had chosen a dress for the wedding yet? I know if you were to ordered a dress today it’d be here by September 5th so the timeline is getting pretty close to the wedding date.
Now the sad news. I also wanted to let you know that with covid things are kinda up in the air. As of now our venue has said that we should be okay because we are at their half capacity limit but There’s always a uncertain fact that we might have to cut the wedding down to just my family if things don’t get better by October. That being said, if you don’t feel comfortable being a bridesmaids or don’t want to buy a dress that you might not end up actually wearing, Id understand! Obviously you’d still be invited to the wedding if things still go as planned! 💕💕”
I told all my bridesmaids that last part about if they aren’t comfortable I’d understand. I sent this message 3 days ago. I know she has read it but still no response. My MOH basically said don’t say anything else till about a week before it’d be to late to order the dress and if she doesn’t have the dress she will just have to be a guest and not a bridesmaid. I don’t know what to do at this point. Any advice?
