Since none of my bridesmaids could agree on a dress, I was able to find two dresses everyone agreed on and had them pick either one because they were the same color. I was ok with mismatched dresses, as long as they were the same color.
Come the next day, 2 out of 5 bridesmaids bought their dresses, but the other 3 hadn't. Now those two dresses are completely out of stock on that website. The bridesmaids who bought the dresses now have to return them and we have to do this all over again.
I get that if the bridesmaids have to pay for their own dresses that they should also like what they're wearing. But at what point do I say "Look guys, we can't all love the same dress, just suck it up and buy it, otherwise you may attend as a guest."
I would really prefer for everyone to wear the same dress, but it looks like we might have to do mismatched dresses.
When does a bride put her foot down?
