Nobody came to my wedding.

I'm so sorry this happened to you! That would make me just as upset. But you are married now and that's what matters whoever was there were the most important people!

That does suck. I'd be sad and mad too. I'm really glad you had a great day despite other people's rudeness. In time, you'll focus on that in your memories. Honestly I guess this is a good time to start weeding people out of your life. That's what I would do.

Your update made me even sadder for you. Ugh. It's hard to break in to a social group in some places. I've lived a lot of places, and some were definitely easier than others. Do either of you enjoy a sport? Baseball team in summer? Curling/hockey in winter?

Im sorry that this happened to you. People can be such assholes sometimes. Honestly, if this is what they do, you are probably better off without them.

So sorry hun.

So sorry! I know the feeling. We had only planned for about 45 (less than 30 even responded at all) and despite my dad and grandma, none of my family showed. Some let us know they had decided not to come the day before, and most said nothing.

And congrats by the way!

This is literally my greatest fear about getting married--that no one will show up! You have every right to be upset because you took your friends, family, and colleagues at their word and they betrayed your trust by not showing up when they said they would. It effing sucks. Mourn but don't wallow. Next time you have an important life event (birthday, anniversary, promotion, baby) you'll at least know who is a true friend and who isn't and can move on to form new (better) friendships and celebrate with those who genuinely care for you and your husband. You'll now be able to invest your time in those deserving of it. I'm so happy to hear that you enjoyed your day regardless; I'm truly in awe of you and your husband because I'm not sure I could be that level-headed, mature, and mentally healthy about something like that! You and your husband had your TRUE nearest and dearest surrounding you and celebrating you, you ended up married, and you had a great time and in the end that is all that really matters. It's beautiful to see that you guys know that! I'm certain you two will have a long and love-filled marriage. Have a wonderful honeymoon and congratulations on being newlyweds!

Congrats on your marriage. I am sorry that this happened to you and your husband on your special day. I know that you are hurt. Any of us would be too. Please don't let this get you down anymore. Prepare for your honeymoon and for a wonderful life with your husband.

When I was new in town, all of my friends were my co-workers. When I got laid off, I lost those 'friends.' That's when I decided I needed friends in various places. Look around for more opportunities to make friends outside of work.

And enjoy your new status of 'married'

This sucks as so many other people have said. I am so sorry it happened to you. You have an excellent attitude that you were able to meet your husband because you moved. Co-workers aren't for life, spouses are... Congratulations on your marriage and I hope you have an amazing honeymoon and focus on the future rather than keeping the pity party going (though totally justified for a few days).

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm almost paranoid it will happen to me. However, I figure, even if only 5 people show up, I still get to marry the love of my life.