No input on bridal shower?

It should be up to the hosts to what kind of food that will be there. I mean if they ask you for your opinion or feedback, sure but I don't think you should interfere. Typically brides are thankful for someone taking the time/money to host them a party and are appreciative of whatever food/theme/style is there.

I just had mine last weekend and I only gave input when directly asked by my MOH. And even then I was super casual like "yeah pinwheels sound delicious, but it's whatever you feel like doing I will eat anything!"

My mom and MOH are throwing the bridal shower and really the only thing I have had input on is the guest list and telling them I didn't want children there. My mom also wanted a suggestion on where to have it because her house won't hold everyone so I just mentioned one that was in town. Unless I am asked I am not giving any input.

I gave my host a guest list and she asked me a few questions on what theme I would like. But other than that, it's completely up to the host. I made the favors as a way to say thank you to my guests and will get a gift for the host.

Do you have dietary restrictions or something?

I think you just give the guest list and that's it

My sister (moh) and my mom have been planning mine and have asked me for some input- I've tried to give them ideas then leave it to them. Except when my sister decided on a perfect 'pear' theme- I shut that down pretty quickly because I hate pears. Abd she was planning on all this food featuring them. Otherwise, I've basically let her do her thing. Only other input I had was a good date and a tentative guest count.

I had mine on Sunday.. I let my hostesses do everything if they asked my opinion I gave it to them..

@GymRat no! I was just asking

& that was what I was wondering as well like if she or they ask me , do I give input

Oh ok. No, I was going to say if maybe you were vegan, or had a seafood allergy, I could see saying something.

Yes, it's totally fine to give input if asked. My MOH gave me some options, and I gave her input. But I also told her I wasn't picky and to do what she could afford.

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Don't stress yourself my bridesmaids and friends have been planning mine for a few months now and all I know is that I cannot wear white.... just go with the flow and have fun.

My MOH asked me what date worked best and asked for the guest list. Thats all

My MOH has asked me what kind of shower I would like, but if they didn't ask, I wouldn't have thought twice about it.

I think a guest list is a must on input, and I'd like to be asked about food and stuff too. But at the end of the day, I'm going to be grateful someone is throwing a shower for me

My MOH(my sister) started a group chat with my mom, my other sister, and myself. We picked out the menu together. I know the date of it because I'm OOT but I'm sure I won't get any more details than that. I would have trusted them with the menu, but she wanted to include me since it's my favorite restaurant.

I've only given input when directly asked. Obviously provided the guest list and when my sister was stuck on venues, helped brainstorm some suggestions. She asked if I had a theme in mind and I said no, gave her free reign or theme and food. Suggested cupcakes or assorted desserts vs cake. And she's sending a list of questions that I'm sure are part of a game

My MOH asked what type of shower i'd like and if i wanted games or anything like that. The only thing i really cared about was that there would be brunch food, so the rest is all a surprise!

You can give input on the guest list and the date. Everything else should be left up to the discretion of the hosts. Don't be a meddling bride. Just be grateful that people are doing this for you.

So far my BP has only asked for the guest list and decoration inspiration. I don't know any other details which is driving me crazy!