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Mariah
Devoted September 2019

No Cell Phones

Mariah, on July 19, 2017 at 5:46 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 32

How do you politely tell your guests that cell phones aren't allowed during the ceremony? You can disagree with me wanting this for my wedding, but I'm going to be paying good money for a professional to take pictures of my big day. The last thing I want is to see a bunch of people with their phones out or even getting in the way of my photographer. During the reception, guests can do whatever they wish with their phones, but I do not want cell phones during the ceremony.

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on July 19, 2017 at 8:16 PM
  • K.M.
    Master September 2018
    K.M. ·
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    This is a common thing...but nice defensive attitude

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  • MMB
    Master January 2017
    MMB ·
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    Just have your officiant make the announcement.

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  • Katy
    VIP June 2018
    Katy ·
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    You worded it so kindly, just put exactly what you wrote on the invitation.

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  • Sunshine
    VIP September 2017
    Sunshine ·
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    It's actually pretty common to have/request an "unplugged wedding". Just google it. You can have your officiant announce it and/or use signs at the ceremony, put it on the website, etc.

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  • Mariah
    Devoted September 2019
    Mariah ·
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    I'm not trying to be defensive, I just don't want 100 comments telling me it's a stupid policy, etc. I just want input on the best way to go about it

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  • IzziJones
    Super October 2018
    IzziJones ·
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    It's called unplugged. You can get a cute sign for it and have your officiant say something before the ceremony starts. Ultimately you are probably going to end up having a few pull out the cell phones.

    With my venue I can have my guests seats pushed a little further apart so my aisle is wider. My photographer recommended it and I'm putting rope (green vines) on the inside of the aisle so all they can do is lean into the aisles but not walk into the aisle (with the chairs further away from the aisle even if they lean it won't block my photographers view)

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  • Ms. B --> Mrs. L
    Super June 2017
    Ms. B --> Mrs. L ·
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    I printed out a sign and put it at the front doors. I also had a slide at the beginning of our ceremony powerpoint and had our officiant make an announcement. It worked like a charm.

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  • C
    Savvy August 2017
    Cheryl ·
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    You can either have the officiant, brother, uncle or friend announce it before everything begins. It's also a nice way to remind people to turn off their phones.

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  • Mrs.Whooooo
    Master May 2017
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    Why so angry and defensive?

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  • Gracie Lou Freebush
    VIP October 2017
    Gracie Lou Freebush ·
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    You can say whatever you want but people will still do it. I've been to several who have tried this and it doesn't really work

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  • Sarah
    Super September 2017
    Sarah ·
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    I am 100% onboard with you. The last wedding I went to, the girl next to me stood up the entire time recording it on her iphone. I'm not a fan. Our officiant is saying something during the beginning of the ceremony about how personal our ceremony is to us and to please put phones away.

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  • FME
    Master March 2018
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    I mean if you scrolled around the threads a little bit you would see unplugged weddings are pretty popular, or just get mad defensive, whichever.

    We are having a sign and officiant will announce it. It's also on our wedding website.

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  • kelly
    Dedicated October 2018
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    I LOVE this! I think you could have fun with it. Like a "hands free" zone, like it is when your driving. Or just ask.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    This is post #2 just today on this, if not post #3...

    Make a cute sign

    Put it on your website

    Have your officiant make an announcement

    Have the people seating your guests tell them.

    Have people with duct tape patroling the area.

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  • Elizabeth
    Master December 2016
    Elizabeth ·
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    Mariah, you don't get to dictate our replies. Also, you're rude.

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
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    FH and I just discussed this. I'm on team unplugged and he doesn't have a preference one way or the other.

    OP, just so you know, most of us are "paying good money for a professional to take pictures of my big day". You're not unique or alone in that.

    You can have a sign or make an announcement.

    ETA: if you're going to tell the community how to post, you might at least give us the courtesy of an updated avatar so we know how to respond to your threads.

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  • Tricia
    VIP October 2017
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    We are putting it in our program and have the officiant announce it.

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  • MrsMcK
    VIP September 2017
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    Just have your officiant announce it.

    And, you know, lose the attitude.

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  • NewlyMrsLachney
    Master September 2017
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    It's in our programs and we'll have our officiant announce it after we snap a group photo!

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  • Mrs_J
    Super September 2018
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    Exactly why no avatar posters get no love. This is the rudest shit I've seen all day.

    And as others have said, since your post is so eloquently stated, how about you say these exact words at your ceremony.

    I'm sure people will get it!

    ETA: spelling

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