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Jessica
Super July 2017

No bridal party?

Jessica, on April 7, 2017 at 11:42 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 41

Are we the only couple that is not having a bridal party in their wedding?? Every time someone asks me who my BM's are, I tell them my FH and I are choosong not to do a bridal party, they are shocked and look at me like I'm crazy! We have a variety of reasons for not adding one and are a lot less stressed because of it. But wow!! I'm just wondering if if was a good choice in the end. People's reactions should not dictate my choices but they are certainly getting on my nerves. Anyone feeling me?

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Latest activity by Nancy Taussig, on April 8, 2017 at 12:15 PM
  • Nicole2017
    Master August 2017
    Nicole2017 ·
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    A friend of mine had no bridal party and her wedding was lovely. A lot of people on here also have no bridal parties

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  • Steagles
    Devoted August 2017
    Steagles ·
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    I don't have one either and I couldn't be happier about it! We have plenty of friends who will be there as guests and that's the way we'll keep it.

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  • RaeGin
    Master September 2017
    RaeGin ·
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    We aren't. It's becoming more common, but I still get some strange looks, too. I'm more than okay having my nearest and dearest attend in the outfits of their choosing, without having to worry about anything other than showing up and having a good time. I will probably still take photos with my closest girl friends.

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  • Rachel Langerhans
    Rachel Langerhans ·
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    NOPE! We didn't have one and it's so much less stress for everyone (the couple getting married AND the guests that would be in a wedding party)! We just wanted everyone to enjoy the day, and I really had no desire to make my friends wear something they didn't want to; I just wanted them to be comfortable. No regrets here Smiley smile

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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
    JoRocka ·
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    No. You are not.

    I didn't have a bridal party. Still married. And no drama. no extra bouts- no extra bouquets. no speeches- no toasts- nothing. still married. had an awesome wedding.

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  • Steagles
    Devoted August 2017
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    ...it also lets me read all the "Drama with my MOH/BM" posts on here with a giant sigh of relief that that's not me. My florist/gift budget appreciates it too. :-)

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  • Rachel Langerhans
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    ^Hehe, yep, Steagles. Whenever people post about wedding party drama and asking what to do, my first thought is "well you shouldn't have had a wedding party - it changes nothing by NOT having one and it's less stress" but that's not a helpful response, so I try to refrain from saying that.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I have a lot of couples with no BP. It's really your choice. Less drama, less expense, less coordination.

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  • MTB
    Master May 2017
    MTB ·
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    I'm not having a bridal party. Less to deal with imo.

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  • CaboBride2018
    VIP May 2018
    CaboBride2018 ·
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    I'm not having a bridal party either. I think most people just aren't aware of the way wedding traditions have evolved over time.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    U r not alone. I am not either. I get crazy looks too. We are non traditional & totally fine with that! Lol!

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  • Rosemapu
    Dedicated November 2018
    Rosemapu ·
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    I feel ya! No bridal party here either, partially because we are having a small/private wedding but I wouldn't do a bridal party even it if wasn't. I love being able to tell our guests, "Feel free to wear whatever you want!". And I think everyone will feel equally a part of the wedding this way. Cheers to less stress!

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  • Amber
    Super September 2017
    Amber ·
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    I actually became anti-BP after being a BM several times over the last couple years. My friends who assumed they "had the job" were pretty pissed...shrug

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  • Heather
    Savvy October 2017
    Heather ·
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    Makes me feel so much better to read so many people who don't have a BP like me!!! I get the strange looks and silent pauses.... It does get to me sometimes but less stress and my wallet not completely empty makes it better!

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  • Chelsea
    VIP September 2017
    Chelsea ·
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    I didn't want a bridal party but FH wanted like 12 groomsmen and was completely against the no bridal party thing. So we are having 3 on each side. Your friends are already coming to your wedding. Why should they buy an expensive dress etc, etc. To me it's just a silly tradition.

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  • E
    Dedicated July 2017
    Erin ·
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    Im only have a MOH. I like things simple and small and hate asking a bunch of friends to pay hundreds for a dress and shit they will never wear again.

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  • abegaile
    Super June 2017
    abegaile ·
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    I only have a MOH and it is the best decision ever. I told her to wear any green dress she wants, scheduling hair/nail appointments was a breeze, and I get to spoil her with gifts since I don't have a million people to buy for.

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  • 2ndTime
    Super October 2017
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    No real BP here... my kids are the MOH and the BM, but no matching dresses, etc. Keeping it simple is good!

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  • SenoraG
    Super July 2017
    SenoraG ·
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    We're not having a bridal party. I'm happy with that decision.

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  • Harleybeachbride
    Master May 2017
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    We are just having his kids (16 daughter & 21 yr son) and my MOH and his BM.... DONE!! Our friends will be there with us so all is good! :+)

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