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Tiffanie
Just Said Yes August 2020

No Bridal Feeling

Tiffanie, on January 27, 2020 at 12:35 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 4


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Hey all,

Has anyone else felt like an out of body experience when shopping for their dress? I LOVE my dress but I never got that special feeling. Like, I couldn't express what I liked and didn't like on dresses at my bridal appointment. And when I go back and look at all the different pictures, I don't really see myself as a bride. I'm feeling rather disappointed but don't want to let it get me down. Any one else ever felt this way? (also my mom sucks at taking good pictures)



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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on February 4, 2020 at 7:03 AM
  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    OK, first of all, my mom sucks at taking good pictures too! I think it’s a “mom” thing haha That being said, I think the way you feel about a dress when you are looking at it in a picture you don’t enjoy will always be affected by it. Also, I think you will have more of a Bridal feeling once you are all “jacked up” (ie, hair and make up done, accessories on, wearing a veil and holding a bouquet). Maybe try doing your hair and make up similar to what you will have the day of your wedding, then go back to the bridal store and try on your dress again. Try on veils and accessories with it while you were there. And most bridal stores have a faux bouquet you can hold in order to give you the full picture.
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  • Kathryn
    VIP August 2020
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    I think it may just be a mom thing lol. Also, it's hard to remember exactly what a dress feels like and looks like just from pictures, and a lot of anxiety stems from only wearing one dress ever for this big day where everyone will be taking your photograph. But breathe! That dress is gorgeous and fits you nicely. I agree with Chrysta - try it with a veil and see how you feel.
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  • Shelly
    Devoted January 2021
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    Try adding a belt and veil and see how you feel. The veil did it for me. I never had a wow moment though I think a lot of people don’t. We see it on tv and expect it but everyone is different.
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hey there, Tiffanie. Everyone reacts differently. Not everyone gets that 'wow' moment and it's totally normal not to.

    Personally, I think your dress is beautiful!

    Have you decided how you will accessorize your dress? Perhaps trying it on all together may help you see the full picture and how you feel about your wedding day look. Are you planning on wearing a veil? As Shelly mentioned, this may help you feel more bridal.

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